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May 13, 2009, 03:27 PM
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I’m very sad right now. My father and I have not spoken since Sunday. I started the not talking because he threw up in our front yard (he’s an alcoholic). I was so angry that I didn’t want to speak to him. I’ve been planning on moving out for a few months now and this month should be my last here. This is not how I want to spend it, but I’m the one who as to cave if I want things to go back to normal. The thing is when your constantly caving it wears on you. I’m just so tired on this **** he’s always acts like he’s the victim, he got so drunk that he threw-up on our front yard and the next morning my mom on mothers day had to clean it up! That’s just not fair. I’m just upset right now because I can’t really talk to him, I’ve already tried that many times. I will just walk in there and cave so that we can have a nice happy goodbye and pretend like everything is aright, but right now I just can’t.
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May 13, 2009, 03:37 PM
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May 15, 2009, 12:10 AM
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Thank you.
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May 15, 2009, 01:58 AM
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Have you ever tried going to some alanon meetings? I would recommend that, I think it would help you, and your relationship with your father. Try different meetings, and try several meetings. Sometimes it takes a while to figure out what alanon is all about or to find a meeting where you feel "at home." You will learn great coping skills in dealing, with love, with the alcoholic in your life.
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 I'd rather have a visit, note or pretty picture than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you." Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure. Can't stop you from praying and blessing me, and if that makes you feel better feel free.  But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me. And let's all respect each other's feelings. With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."
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