[JayS]

I get the feeling that nobody here want's to talk to me..... what did I do? I'm trying to be nice and help where I can. I don't know if I should stay or not come back here again, I don't want to be here if no one want's me.

[FerretGuy5]

Originally Posted by JayS

I get the feeling that nobody here want's to talk to me..... what did I do? I'm trying to be nice and help where I can. I don't know if I should stay or not come back here again, I don't want to be here if no one want's me.

Try the conversation in the Lobby. I'm sure people will talk to you here.

[psjeff]

Originally Posted by JayS

I get the feeling that nobody here want's to talk to me..... what did I do? I'm trying to be nice and help where I can. I don't know if I should stay or not come back here again, I don't want to be here if no one want's me.

What is it you want to talk about? I found lots of people to chat with in the lobby and other chat rooms. Don't give up.

[JayS]

Originally Posted by psjeff

What is it you want to talk about? I found lots of people to chat with in the lobby and other chat rooms. Don't give up.

It just seems like people are ignoring me for some reason.

[Catherine2]

Originally Posted by JayS

It just seems like people are ignoring me for some reason.

JayS,
It may feel like you are being ignored, but you really are not...
Sometimes people don't know what to say to help, some may not be in a good place to respond...it's not you.

Keep posting and let us know how you are doing, ok?

Catherie

[daggy]

Jay S
It takes time and understanding that it takes awhile to find where you fit in and then before you know it you will be inundated with people that want to talk to you and seek your advice on things. It wont happen overnight but it will happen if you stick with it and give everyone a chance to meet and talk before deciding nobody is interested.
It took me a few weeks just to figure out the system let alone chat to anyone
try the search for people like me thing on your profile page . to see who else has your interests. ( at least I think that is where it is )
If you get into trouble ask one of the admin ppl for help or read the instructions . I haven`t read them yet yet I manage to muddle through .
So good luck and stick with it

[JayS]

Thanks for trying to help, but I don't know what to talk about. I just can't take being alone.

[Pomegranate]

Jay You've been helpful to me, and I responded to you. Keep posting as Catherine2 said. Sometimes things just go the way they go. If you really need help or are feeling left out, well you just did the right thing - you posted your feelings honestly and see how many people are responding?

[bipolar_bear]

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((JayS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Sometimes it takes a while to feel comfortable in the forums and chat. I think it can be sorta scary to put yourself out there and then feel that you are not being included. Please give it some time. You are getting a lot of responses here; so maybe posting is a good place to start? Don't give up; sometimes things just take a little time. You can PM me anytime.

BB

[Pomegranate]

Oh and I ps here, I went to your public profile to friend you, about a week ago. Whenever it was you responded to my post? But your profile customization scared me.

I will go friend you now, but it still scares me. Black and blood make me feel fearful.

[JayS]

Thank you everyone.

Originally Posted by Pomegranate

Oh and I ps here, I went to your public profile to friend you, about a week ago. Whenever it was you responded to my post? But your profile customization scared me.

I will go friend you now, but it still scares me. Black and blood make me feel fearful.

Pomegranate,

Thank you for being my friend. And I'm so sorry my profile scares you but it is who I am.