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Old Sep 01, 2009, 05:42 PM
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We had a great blah-fest a few nighta ago. Anybody wanna join the "screwed up and what's new" fest? ....

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thought not!!!

Peace, Love and Hugs to all, and never give up ...just coz I have lol

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Old Sep 01, 2009, 05:45 PM
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I'm in your boat. Trying to hope for better days.
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Old Sep 01, 2009, 05:52 PM
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((((((((Tumnus)))))))) sorry to hear you in the same boat! It's a sucky boat, friend!

for you and genuinely hope it helps a little!
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Old Sep 01, 2009, 05:57 PM
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We had a great blah-fest a few nighta ago. Anybody wanna join the "screwed up and what's new" fest? ....

...
...
...

thought not!!!

Peace, Love and Hugs to all, and never give up ...just coz I have lol

Sure, Lost71; I'm up for it or down with it either way. Should I bring my PJs, pillow, and blankie again, just in case?
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I walked a mile with Sorrow and ne'er a word said she;
But oh, the things I learned from her when Sorrow walked with me!"

(Robert Browning Hamilton; "Along The Road")
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Old Sep 01, 2009, 06:01 PM
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you obviously aint read my thread in general mental health or you'd know I deleted you (and everyone) as a friend! Wish I hadn't you make for a cool party! And sure...you overdress in your pj's and I'll forget lol

p.s. bring me a teddy bear lol
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Old Sep 01, 2009, 06:20 PM
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I'm sorry you are feeling so down on yourself Lost. Be gentle on yourself, you really do deserve it. No matter what you've done or haven't done. I care. Even if you deleted me as a friend.
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Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure.
Can't stop you from praying and blessing me,
and if that makes you feel better feel free.
But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me.
And let's all respect each other's feelings.
With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."
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Old Sep 01, 2009, 06:32 PM
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We had a great blah-fest a few nighta ago. Anybody wanna join the "screwed up and what's new" fest? ....

...
...
...

thought not!!!

Peace, Love and Hugs to all, and never give up ...just coz I have lol


((((Lost71)))) So sorry you are so down. You have been doing really well and I am here for you as others are. Sorry if I did anything at all to hurt you, I will always be your friend and always try to understand you. Hugs for your day.
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Old Sep 01, 2009, 06:32 PM
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((((((Lost71))))))
I'm so sorry you are feeling so bad. I hope you feel better soon.
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Old Sep 01, 2009, 06:36 PM
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We had a great blah-fest a few nighta ago. Anybody wanna join the "screwed up and what's new" fest? ....

...
...
...

thought not!!!

Peace, Love and Hugs to all, and never give up ...just coz I have lol


Just to let you know I use that thank you button to show that I care not to say thank you for sharing that you are feeling down. I think some happy juice is what we need. Hugs for your day.
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Old Sep 01, 2009, 07:04 PM
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I'm sorry you are feeling so down on yourself Lost. Be gentle on yourself, you really do deserve it. No matter what you've done or haven't done. I care. Even if you deleted me as a friend.

((((((Pomegranate)))))) hope you know I love your spirit? And I will NEVER delete YOU as a friend again!

Thank You for being YOU...a wonderful, caring, forgiving person!
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Old Sep 01, 2009, 07:06 PM
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((((Lost71)))) So sorry you are so down. You have been doing really well and I am here for you as others are. Sorry if I did anything at all to hurt you, I will always be your friend and always try to understand you. Hugs for your day.

((((((alaskan)))))) ...thank you for that!

but understand me? lol I'm still trying on that one, so if you ever figure me out...gimme a heads up will ya?
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Old Sep 01, 2009, 07:07 PM
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((((((Lost71))))))
I'm so sorry you are feeling so bad. I hope you feel better soon.

((((((googley)))))) hugs for you too, friend
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Old Sep 01, 2009, 07:20 PM
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Lost71, I LOVE your fests Never go to any irl, but yours are just amazing. Count me in any time, ok?
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Old Sep 01, 2009, 07:23 PM
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lol ((freak)) ... shall I give you an advance invite to my pity party next week?

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Old Sep 01, 2009, 09:37 PM
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you obviously aint read my thread in general mental health or you'd know I deleted you (and everyone) as a friend! Wish I hadn't you make for a cool party! And sure...you overdress in your pj's and I'll forget lol

p.s. bring me a teddy bear lol
I am so very, very sorry that you are having such a rough time right now, and the thought that my failing you in some way as a friend contributed to your present pain and suffering just breaks my heart. You say that you are willing to forget, but I honestly don't know what happened. I guess I haven't managed to find the original post.

I have never chatted or posted before coming here to PC, so I'm a little slow learning how to keep track of everyone and everything. This new PC family is the most friends (and family) I have ever had in my life, and I have never experienced such a sense of acceptance and belonging; the thought of offending, hurting, or losing any of you is unbearable - the sense of loss and grief, overwhelming. Usually when I cry it's within, the tears never reach the surface; I think this is probably only the second time in 20+ years that I have actually physically cried about anything, and now I can't seem to be able to stop - which is probably a good thing because I have such a hard time letting my emotions out.

I'm not certain of the significance of depressedalaskan's reference to the "Thank You" button, but I use it to acknowledge those who step up and give of themselves despite their own pain in order to respond to the threads, and to acknowledge those who originally start the threads for having the courage to bare their hearts and souls here in reaching out for help and support. If there is an issue about my using it this way, someone please let me know.

If you want my friendship, Lost71, you already have it. I will try my best to learn how to be a better friend to you and everyone else here and learn how to navigate the site better. I sincerely hope that you feel better soon and that whatever damage I may have contributed to is not irreparable. My PJs are packed and ready to go, and I will bring you the softest, fuzziest, huggable teddy bear that I can find - you just say the word.
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I walked a mile with Sorrow and ne'er a word said she;
But oh, the things I learned from her when Sorrow walked with me!"

(Robert Browning Hamilton; "Along The Road")
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Old Sep 01, 2009, 09:45 PM
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((((((((((((lynn))))))))))))

I'm sorry I didn't explain myself properly, I was a bit upset! It wasn't anything you or anyone else done!

You have been the COOLEST friend a person could ever hope for!

Please know you have nothing to apologize for!

And about the thank you button...that is exactly the way alaskan (and many of us) use it.

And you don't have to try and be a better friend...you are already the sweetest friend! I still have the pm with the song link you sent me and you have no idea how much that lifted me!

Big Love and Hugs to you

p.s. wicked, I get the bestest teddy bear yay!
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Old Sep 01, 2009, 10:52 PM
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I am so very, very sorry that you are having such a rough time right now, and the thought that my failing you in some way as a friend contributed to your present pain and suffering just breaks my heart. You say that you are willing to forget, but I honestly don't know what happened. I guess I haven't managed to find the original post.

I have never chatted or posted before coming here to PC, so I'm a little slow learning how to keep track of everyone and everything. This new PC family is the most friends (and family) I have ever had in my life, and I have never experienced such a sense of acceptance and belonging; the thought of offending, hurting, or losing any of you is unbearable - the sense of loss and grief, overwhelming. Usually when I cry it's within, the tears never reach the surface; I think this is probably only the second time in 20+ years that I have actually physically cried about anything, and now I can't seem to be able to stop - which is probably a good thing because I have such a hard time letting my emotions out.

I'm not certain of the significance of depressedalaskan's reference to the "Thank You" button, but I use it to acknowledge those who step up and give of themselves despite their own pain in order to respond to the threads, and to acknowledge those who originally start the threads for having the courage to bare their hearts and souls here in reaching out for help and support. If there is an issue about my using it this way, someone please let me know.

If you want my friendship, Lost71, you already have it. I will try my best to learn how to be a better friend to you and everyone else here and learn how to navigate the site better. I sincerely hope that you feel better soon and that whatever damage I may have contributed to is not irreparable. My PJs are packed and ready to go, and I will bring you the softest, fuzziest, huggable teddy bear that I can find - you just say the word.

Now you both have me crying, happy crying, you are both so sweet. How thoughtful you are. Many hugs for your day.
Thanks for this!
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Old Sep 01, 2009, 10:53 PM
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((((((((((((lynn))))))))))))

I'm sorry I didn't explain myself properly, I was a bit upset! It wasn't anything you or anyone else done!

You have been the COOLEST friend a person could ever hope for!

Please know you have nothing to apologize for!

And about the thank you button...that is exactly the way alaskan (and many of us) use it.

And you don't have to try and be a better friend...you are already the sweetest friend! I still have the pm with the song link you sent me and you have no idea how much that lifted me!

Big Love and Hugs to you

p.s. wicked, I get the bestest teddy bear yay!
Now you both have me crying, happy crying, you are both so sweet. How thoughtful you are. Many hugs for your day.
Thanks for this!
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Old Sep 02, 2009, 01:45 PM
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lol ((freak)) ... shall I give you an advance invite to my pity party next week?


That would be awesome, thanks But I have to warn you: I have really high standards regarding pity parties

Hope you're feeling better today
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Old Sep 02, 2009, 02:07 PM
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lol ((((((((freak)))))))) ...i best put in some practice to make sure i'm up to your expected standards then

and yes, I am feeling better today thanks to everyone here.
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