[larakeziah]

I've not been a member here for so long, a couple of months maybe. When i first went on chat everyone was really nice and welcoming an i loved going on chat its helped me so much. And the ppl on chat have helped loads an i have done my best to try an help them when possible. Now i don't even wanna go on any more cos it appears that i have upset a few ppl an i don't understand how i've upset them they jus won't talk to me an i don't understand why? It's really distressing me cos i don't like upsetting ppl an if i have then i want to make it right! I love going on chat but now i feel like i shouldn't be there! I don't know what to do!

[crystalrose]

yeah u should come on chat. I'm sorry i went on a few hours ago and you weren't there. I like chatting with you you are fun. Pm and tell me what happened.

Originally Posted by larakeziah

I've not been a member here for so long, a couple of months maybe. When i first went on chat everyone was really nice and welcoming an i loved going on chat its helped me so much. And the ppl on chat have helped loads an i have done my best to try an help them when possible. Now i don't even wanna go on any more cos it appears that i have upset a few ppl an i don't understand how i've upset them they jus won't talk to me an i don't understand why? It's really distressing me cos i don't like upsetting ppl an if i have then i want to make it right! I love going on chat but now i feel like i shouldn't be there! I don't know what to do!

Please, just stay here, continue to do what you do and want to do, play games for awhile -

As for other peoples emotions = that is THEIR problems.

Everyone has a right to their own opinion...

It took me years to voice mine...

Most often I make my own Thread and voice my feelings to myself, if someone can relate, offer and idea etc... it's appreciated.

If I don't receive any response that's okay too ---- Cuz You're doing it for you!

That way I've released it - AND others can take it anyway they want CUZ it's YOUR thread.

K!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"We're not wrong - The worlds messed up!"

I'm just floating around here - kind'a doing my own thing...
Most often I don't even know what that is....

Go to my site and read my BIO.... maybe you and relate...
who knows, - maybe it'll turn out to a bit of good or interesting or boring writing.

[larakeziah]

Thanks starlite! Takin a break for a bit tho. Thanks crystalrose! I like talking to you too! Takin a break for a bit but will check any messages on my phone so if ya need me pm me an i'll reply straight away. Hopefully i'll be back in chat soon. I'll see

[darkpurplesecrets]

((((larakeziah))))

Take the time you feel you need but know we are here when you come back. I am sorry you feel bad. I do not know what happened in chat but I do know that sometimes people need to take care of themselves. We never know what may be going on for others at any given time. Do not take it personally. And if you think there is a problem, pm those people and ask them if there is something going on. If there is they will either answer you or will not. We cannot control the action or feelings of others only our own.

I know for me there are times when I can go into chat and be there to help, listen, joke around, talk. But there are many times when I just go in and I do not say alot. I just want to be around others so I am not alone. I do not say much except hi but I am there. It is not against anyone there it is just that I am not in the space to really say much. But that is not about anyone else. Sometimes people are just not in a place to talk. They just need time.

If I need to talk to someone or feel there is a problem, I pm that person and it is their choice to respond or not. It may not be anything I did at all. So many times it is something going on for that person and they just need some space. Try not to take it personally.

I hope you will keep going to chat and posting here on the boards. Take breaks where you need to and take of care of you. For no one knows better than you what you need. Just know we are here when you come back and are ready to listen whenever you are ready to talk.

We do care and are listening. Sending you gentle hugs and loving thoughts.

dps

[larakeziah]

Thanks dps! I understand completely with what you said but when these certain ppl are talkin to others an ignoring me its hard not to take it personally you know! Maybe i will pm them. Although i already pm'd one and they did not respond. Oh well thanks again Lara