[uhhidk]

So a lot of good, amazing even, things have been happening to me lately. When I share the good news with others though, they don't seem to care. The only time they care is when something bad happens. It's like I'm not interesting to them anymore. I realize that this is partially my fault because of my isolation issues, but when I do try to reach out I get no response.

I've come to the conclusion that I can't rely on anyone but myself... I know thats bad but it's how I feel...

I just needed to get that all off of my chest.

I can relate to what your saying...
As for some people only wanting to hear about BAD things: People Love that Drama. They like life to be like a soap opera.

It is a good test to see if you're in a one sided relationship.
Like two people rowing a boat and one stop to see if the other one is giving / doing their share

I seem to find those one sided people - That only want to talk about their stuff..... and Never even if I have something to say they don't hear it anyway, or have to leave, get off the phone -

Or even (make me feel) think they are thinking badly of me
Like I'm crazy or something.

[FeelingHopeful]

Isolation issues or not, a Friend should be there when something good or bad happens, in BOTH TIMES!! thats the sign of a true friend. Hugs to you!

[KDlady]

sometimes friends get in ruts too - they are the friend to help you get thru the hard times but don't know their role when it comes to the good times. And sometimes they seem to wait to see if the other shoe is going to drop and they can take their old familiar role again.
They may need time to see things in a different light

[Naturefreak]

Originally Posted by uhhidk

So a lot of good, amazing even, things have been happening to me lately. When I share the good news with others though, they don't seem to care. The only time they care is when something bad happens. It's like I'm not interesting to them anymore. I realize that this is partially my fault because of my isolation issues, but when I do try to reach out I get no response.

I've come to the conclusion that I can't rely on anyone but myself... I know thats bad but it's how I feel...

I just needed to get that all off of my chest.

I'm happy to hear that a lot of good things are happening to you lately uhhidk
Starlite is right , some people like the drama.
You see it in the media all the time.
People tend to be more interested in the bad , controversial things rather than the every day good things people do.
Remember when Michael Jackson passed the media were all over it for weeks.
When Farrah Fawcett or Patrick Swayze passed it was like a day or so. Take care and thanks for getting that off your chest.

[Rhiannonsmoon]

uhhidk,

At times we get dsepondent or hurt if people don't repsond or react the way we would sort of expect or like them to.

As the others have said, some people have their own issues and if they don't tell us about them, we don't know whats going on with them.

Bear with it and as things continue on an even keel, all things will work themselves out.

Having said that I am really happy that things are so good for you! We all deserve good things and when they happen it seems like a message from the Universe that we are in the groove and moving smoothly...so enjoy it...

((((hugs))))
Rhiannon