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Old Dec 30, 2009, 02:01 PM
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I'm indecisive about everything. One day I'll believe one thing and the next i'll go back on it completely.

If questioned about what I believe spiritually or what I want to do...I feel like i'll flip-flop a LOT.

I doubt myself.

I'm chonically indecisive. Why is this? It makes me fee as though I dont really exist? (which is a weird way to phrase it)

Other people seem so sure of themselves...
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Old Dec 30, 2009, 02:31 PM
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I think you hit upon something important that "other people seem so sure of themselves" I'm sure that most people looking at me from the outside would say that of me, but the truth about me is that I question everything I do. And I don't think you phased anything "weird" I often wonder about if I or anyone really exists. What is exixtance, does reality cause preception or does preception cause reality? The sane answer to that is that reality is reality and we can precieve it in different ways, but I'm not so sure about that, I'm also very unsure of my sanity..
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Old Dec 30, 2009, 02:33 PM
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That's okay - maybe you just haven't found the right answers yet. I feel like this when it comes to religion- I don't feel satisfied with any one religion although I can see good/bad points in each one. I just concentrate on living in the present and being as good as I can be.
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Old Dec 30, 2009, 02:49 PM
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Hi, SophiaG! You may enjoy this short article: The Noble Lineage of Indecision
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Old Dec 30, 2009, 02:52 PM
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Other people may be putting on a front, putting their best foot forward, when in private, they are indecisive also
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Old Dec 30, 2009, 04:10 PM
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Hi, SophiaG! You may enjoy this short article: The Noble Lineage of Indecision
That was AWESOME . All the more so because i'm a Psych major
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Old Dec 30, 2009, 04:11 PM
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Other people may be putting on a front, putting their best foot forward, when in private, they are indecisive also

This could be true
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