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So here is some real clear thinking for you. During my session with my therapist on Monday she kept pressing me on why I think I’m a horrible person, what have I done that would make me feel that way. The best I could come up with is this, I hate myself because I hate myself. Circular logic, it feeds on its self. Logic like this is clearly misguided but also hard to break this cycle.
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They do like to ask those kinds of questions that seem to have no real answer...I hate that kind of questioning...
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"The only normal people are the one's you don't know very well." -Dr. Alfred Adler, Father of Individual Psychology http://www.trans4mind.com/mind-development/adler.html |
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I suffer from this kind of logic as well. The worst thing is, I know I'm wrong, but I still think like that.
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How's it going, Mike?
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"The only normal people are the one's you don't know very well." -Dr. Alfred Adler, Father of Individual Psychology http://www.trans4mind.com/mind-development/adler.html |
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What you speak of maybe circular but it hardly qualifies as logic. Circular reasoning is a fallacy.
The therapist asked a very reasonable question which you acknowledge unmasked a belief that has no basis in reality. What you and your therapist are dealing with is the too often present cognitive distortion. See here: http://psychcentral.com/lib/2009/15-...e-distortions/ While challenging the distortions may be difficult, it should not be so unmanageable when as here the premise is so patently false. I assume we all want to get better. Challenging every negative we believe about ourselves is a good start. As Descartes said, “If you would be a real seeker after truth, it is necessary that at least once in your life you doubt, as far as possible, all things. |
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