[redredblueblue22]

i need help really bad im on the other side of what im use to my friend that is living woth me is currently in her room iv neever seen her like this befor she has the door looked a think she goning to so somethin to her self and i dont no what to do i think she as already taken drugs of some sort and i dont no how to help i dont no what to say im scared my self im having a hard time with this becuse iv not been having a good time these last couple days and im lost

[NuckingFutz]

Knock on roomies door softly and ask her if she wants to talk. Ask her if there is anything you can do. Let her know you want to make sure she is ok

[SophiaG]

taken drugs as in Over Dosed? or taken drugs as in sleeping pills to sleep for the night?

[Rohag]

Redredblueblue, what happened? Do you have a better idea now of what's up with your friend? We understand you're concerned for her, but do please take care of yourself.

[redredblueblue22]

shes still asleep right now im ginong to go check on her im nervouse though because i think she tried ovrdosing but i went up last night to knock on her door she had it locked i asked to come in a make sure shes ok she said no im busy and said she hade to call someplace or this girl she speaks with is calling the cops to check on her i havent heard enything sence i should be at school but was to stressed last night didnt go to sleep intill 5 am i just relised anyways there 2 weeks leftr vand iv not even started my summattives

[redredblueblue22]

i dont no what to do enymore thers a person texting me to talk another texting me because her bff is dieing and another wantting to die there two on facebook wanting to die and i want top help them all but all this is makeing me feel so sick i didnt even go to school i have a shycitrist appoint ment in 2 hours i have to leave in an hour but i cant even pull myself out of bed

[Elysium]

The first thing you need to do is take care of you. You are not responsible for anyone else's crises.

If you are concerned that your live-in friend has harmed herself in some way, call the police and have them come over and do a welfare check on her. This puts the responsibility in their hands.

Where is your Mother in all of this. Who is the adult in that house?

I'm not sure what to believe with you anyway. You always have at least 15 crises going on at once and it seems once you get people stirred up and you get the attention you are seeking, you disappear for a while till you need your next fix.

I want to support you...but you confuse me. What are you on about?

[redredblueblue22]

i dont mean to disappear i dont own a computer so i can only go on when my cousin lend me his my mom shes asleep she acts more likea child then a parent she doesnt no how to deal i riex talking her yesterday night she just went to sleep thats all she every does

I hope you got to talk to your psychiatrist, redred. Perhaps calling the police to come check on your friend would get things, sorted.

Good luck, redred.

[Lisa Michelle]

Has your friend come out of her room yet? Does she know you suffer with mental health problems too? I always find it easier to talk to someone who UNDERSTANDS and I'm sure whatever is wrong with your friend you would understand and be there for her.

I looked at your profile though, and you're only 18 and have a lot to deal with yourself. This is a lot for you. You're not responsible for your friend although she's in your house and of course you want to help her. Does she know how much she is worrying you?? Perhaps you could tell her.

Why are there so many people on facebook telling you they want to die? Are they close friends, people you have met via facebook groups or..? It's really not helping you to be worrying so much about other people when you have your own things to deal with. If they aren't your very close friends I would recommend taking a step back. I'm sure they can reach out to someone else. You could even direct them to this forum. This must really be messing with your mind and making you so anxious. Please try to take a step back and think of yourself. It's definitely not a good idea to be talking to these people and getting so stressed you can't go to school. School is important for YOU.

I hope your psych appointment went well, if you were able to go, and that they were perhaps able to give you some better perspective over how to deal with all of this.

[NuckingFutz]

RedRed, can you check in? Even if it's on a school computer?