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Old Oct 13, 2005, 06:45 PM
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How can I try to explain How can I?

When I do
You change the subjet How can I?
You get angry How can I?
You say I'm boring How can I?
It's not important How can I?
I'm childish How can I?



Silence How can I? How can I?

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Old Oct 13, 2005, 06:46 PM
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Old Oct 13, 2005, 06:53 PM
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((((((((time0)))))))))) I'm so sorry you are feeling this way. How can I?
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Old Oct 13, 2005, 07:05 PM
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Old Oct 13, 2005, 07:40 PM
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Old Oct 13, 2005, 07:55 PM
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How can I?

I know about anger and those feelings. Wish you didn't experience them @ all. Take care of YOU!
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Old Oct 13, 2005, 07:58 PM
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Hi Time0. If that's not a kick in the butt! How can I?
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We're here to listen. How can I?
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Old Oct 13, 2005, 08:25 PM
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Old Oct 14, 2005, 07:43 PM
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Thank you all for caring!

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Old Oct 14, 2005, 10:17 PM
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i'm so sorry, love, pat
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Old Oct 14, 2005, 10:20 PM
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Old Oct 15, 2005, 02:53 PM
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I don't remember but I feel that since the moment I could talk people told me to shut up and listen.

Thank you for understanding and your kindness!

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Old Oct 15, 2005, 03:29 PM
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Wow Time0!

Your words made me think of an old Cat Stevens song, titled Father and Son. I have always felt this way too. I'm sorry you share the same hurt.

Petunia How can I?

How can I try to explain, when I do he turns away again.
It’s always been the same, same old story.
From the moment I could talk I was ordered to listen.
Now there’s a way and I know that I have to go away.
I know I have to go.
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Old Oct 15, 2005, 04:04 PM
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I'm so sorry Time0- not being heard is awful, I know that pain. How can I?

Kudos to you for revealing some of your voice-- and just because you weren't heard doesn't mean you aren't worth listening to--- the not hearing part is the other person's error.
Look at all the people that heard you here!!

Please take care and please keep "voicing"--- I care, as do many others!!

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Old Oct 15, 2005, 04:51 PM
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It is much simplier for me to write then to talk face to face with someone. And this is the only place that I share what I write.

People has always made me feel that what I had to say wasn't important. The only time they listen to me is when I give them compliments. The only time they do it's when it is about them.

Thank you so much! You are all very kind!
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Old Oct 15, 2005, 04:56 PM
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Time0...I am the same way. I cannot verbalize at all in front of someone. T sessions can be so horrible because my normal response is "I don't know!" But give me an outlet where I can write it down and I can do so much more.
Glad to hear I am not alone. And hope you feel better knowing you are not alone in that.
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Old Oct 15, 2005, 05:18 PM
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I think you're right about "most" ppl only want to listen when it's good stuff about them... or at least a lot of ppl are like that. I hope you can find other ppl to surround yourself with, ones that are secure enough in who they are, to appreciate who you are!
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
I don't remember but I feel that since the moment I could talk people told me to shut up and listen.


</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> That happened a lot to me too. In fact, I wouldn't talk till I was about 3 because of the fear of being muzzled. It really hurts when no one wants to hear you.
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Old Oct 16, 2005, 12:56 AM
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I TOTALLY relate to that................. How can I?
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