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How can I try to explain
![]() When I do You change the subjet ![]() You get angry ![]() You say I'm boring ![]() It's not important ![]() I'm childish ![]() Silence ![]() ![]() Time0 |
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((((((((((((time0)))))))))))
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((((((((time0)))))))))) I'm so sorry you are feeling this way.
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ggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!
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![]() ![]() ((((((((((((((((Time0)))))))))))))))))
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Hi Time0. If that's not a kick in the butt!
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(((((((((((((((((((time0)))))))))))))))))))))))
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(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Time0))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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Thank you all for caring!
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i'm so sorry, love, pat
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(((((((((Time0))))))))
Not being heard bites.
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I don't remember but I feel that since the moment I could talk people told me to shut up and listen.
Thank you for understanding and your kindness! Time0 |
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Wow Time0!
Your words made me think of an old Cat Stevens song, titled Father and Son. I have always felt this way too. I'm sorry you share the same hurt. Petunia ![]() How can I try to explain, when I do he turns away again. It’s always been the same, same old story. From the moment I could talk I was ordered to listen. Now there’s a way and I know that I have to go away. I know I have to go. |
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I'm so sorry Time0- not being heard is awful, I know that pain.
![]() Kudos to you for revealing some of your voice-- and just because you weren't heard doesn't mean you aren't worth listening to--- the not hearing part is the other person's error. Look at all the people that heard you here!! Please take care and please keep "voicing"--- I care, as do many others!! mandy |
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It is much simplier for me to write then to talk face to face with someone. And this is the only place that I share what I write.
People has always made me feel that what I had to say wasn't important. The only time they listen to me is when I give them compliments. The only time they do it's when it is about them. Thank you so much! You are all very kind! Time0 |
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Time0...I am the same way. I cannot verbalize at all in front of someone. T sessions can be so horrible because my normal response is "I don't know!" But give me an outlet where I can write it down and I can do so much more.
Glad to hear I am not alone. And hope you feel better knowing you are not alone in that. Suz |
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I think you're right about "most" ppl only want to listen when it's good stuff about them... or at least a lot of ppl are like that. I hope you can find other ppl to surround yourself with, ones that are secure enough in who they are, to appreciate who you are!
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
I don't remember but I feel that since the moment I could talk people told me to shut up and listen. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> That happened a lot to me too. In fact, I wouldn't talk till I was about 3 because of the fear of being muzzled. It really hurts when no one wants to hear you.
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I TOTALLY relate to that.................
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