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Old Nov 09, 2011, 03:37 PM
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I need a friend VERY badly. I'll take just one, I just really need someone to talk to who also understands.

I have the worst time making friends though and my family, I feel like they are strangers too. I don't act like any of them. I just feel awkward, like I'm some sort of alien amongst these crazy humans.

I wish I at least had a T to go to, but I can't find one of those either.

My boyfriend is great, but who do I talk to when HE pisses me off?

I'm just getting this out because I'm out of options and I honestly can't find a solution for this.
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Old Nov 09, 2011, 04:49 PM
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I'll be your friend, if you want me.
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Old Nov 09, 2011, 06:23 PM
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I will certainly be your friend also. Tell me your story, and I will share with you.
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Old Nov 10, 2011, 03:34 AM
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Helloo emptybee,

I know how you feel, I believe many of us who are on here do understand the importance of just having someone to share with or even listen.

I'm a forum newbie.. this'll be my 1st official post online but I've been scouring and following this and many other for about over a year now. I know at just 21 this may sound silly, but ever since I was a young lad (~11) I've taken a liking to just listening to people, their problems and doing anything I could to help People have often found me very easy to talk to and confide in, so you could say I have quite a bit of 'listening' experience.

To top it all off I've been chasing my childhood dream of becoming a doctor someday, and that's what I still plan on doing. Having been hit with this illness randomly and quite severely, I've logged countless hours on here doing medical and anecdotal research to better understand both my own and others' conditions. So if the position is still available, I'd be happy to be a friend and help you in any way I can.

Cheers,

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Old Nov 10, 2011, 06:31 AM
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I need a friend VERY badly. I'll take just one, I just really need someone to talk to who also understands.

I have the worst time making friends though and my family, I feel like they are strangers too. I don't act like any of them. I just feel awkward, like I'm some sort of alien amongst these crazy humans.

I wish I at least had a T to go to, but I can't find one of those either.

My boyfriend is great, but who do I talk to when HE pisses me off?

I'm just getting this out because I'm out of options and I honestly can't find a solution for this.
I really want to help you and support you, feel free to PM me whenever you feel you want/need to.
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Old Nov 10, 2011, 05:50 PM
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I am in the same place as you are. I'm here to listen to you anytime.
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Old Nov 10, 2011, 05:58 PM
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I feel the same as you, an alien among "normal" people. I suffer from deep depression and most of the time don't feel like being social. I am hoping to make friends and find support on this site. I am looking for friends that understand what it is like to be crazy trapped in a normal world..
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Old Nov 10, 2011, 08:05 PM
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Sounds like you are just like me, Email me sometime
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Old Nov 10, 2011, 11:29 PM
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I'm always up for making new friends, and everybody should have a few to spare! Go ahead and PM me if you like.
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Old Nov 12, 2011, 01:03 AM
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Message me! I'm a loner too!=D...don't know why I smiled at that..lol.
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Old Dec 01, 2011, 08:12 PM
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I'm here for you as well...willing to be & need a friend to 8)
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Old Dec 02, 2011, 03:23 AM
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Old Dec 02, 2011, 10:04 AM
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Hi Emptybee,
I also struggle to connect with my family ...mainly because they dont really talk to each other - just talk AT each other. At family gatherings , no one listens, the discussions get competitive and they dont like to back down ..

! Ive had more success making friends ..but find it hard to hold on to them when depression takes hold. I struggle to be there for them when I feel soooo low and out of energy myself. I end up isolating myself and thats where Im at just now... This is the only outlet I have ..and it helps alot just to know people are out there feeling the same as me.

Im a good listener ..so if you want to share Im listening and hope I can be a good friend
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Old Dec 02, 2011, 10:24 AM
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Message me! I'm a loner too!=D...don't know why I smiled at that..lol.


i smile sometimes too...just to myself....

then I check to see if I saw it...

how can a mouth so bitter even make a friendly shape.

beats me!?

but I do it anyway...

guess it's a freebie
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