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Dec 13, 2011, 10:59 AM
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They are the best thing in the world but lately, my one and only friend, my best friend whom I have known for 11 years doesn't want to hang around me anymore. I guess it's cause I'm boring or dull or something anyways I go through moods about it for example one moment I think he's just busy and needs a break and another I think I don't need him anymore I can move on. What should I do? Its really starting to trouble me.
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Dec 13, 2011, 11:50 AM
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Since it is his decision not to hangout with you anymore, about the only option I can see is to confirm his decision is final and irrevocable.
You will have some grieving to deal with. Eleven years is a long time. Ultimately you much accept what you alone cannot change. |
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Dec 13, 2011, 12:25 PM
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Give him time he'll come around and if he doesn't then he's not as understanding as you might have thought he was. Even though people are you're best friends sometimes they don't always act like it.... Good luck and stay hopeful!!!!!
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Dec 13, 2011, 01:47 PM
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at one time, all our "old friends" were new, remember, to appreciate what is coming into your life, as well a mourning what is leaving.
you might want to join the Grief Support Chat that meets on Thursday evenings,, check the calendar on your profile room to see what time ,,, best wishes, , Gus
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