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Nov 30, 2003, 04:45 PM
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i don't want to lose my boyfriend i do love him i am very fond of him. And it scares me that he may not feel the same. I just can't work it out. I feel so paranoid. I keep thinking so many horrid thoughts that hes funny with me because
1. hes either met someone else and is finding it really hard to tell me 2. would like some space and is freaking about commitment 3. his friends have been pressurising him 4. he doesn't find me attractive any more i just don't know christelle. I can't work it out. One minute we're fine the next i feel awkward. But i am not sure if it is just on my side. I don't know if it just because i don't trust him after what him cheating on me. I keep remembering when we first met and how special he made me feel and i don't feel like that any more, i was so happy, you know what i am like i was so voer the moon when i met someone who thought i was beautiful and told me all the time. I know that period don't last forever but i am just not convinced he wants to be with me. I am not sure if he is afraid to tell me incase it would make things awkward between our social group, if he is afraid of hurting me or if he thinks he will lose me as a friend to. Because i would be so hurt if we broke up. I would be extremely gutted. It doesn't matter how many times people tell me to talk to him i can't, just incase it is all in my head. It isn't my fault i don't trust him, he broke my heart and trust and i thought i could get it back i thought i had learned to trust him again but just recently i have become so paranoid it is unbelievable, just out the blue, i see him looking at other girls ok i can live with that, but then things happen and i completely flip inside i start thinking all these thoughts. i must sound like a nutcase! |
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Dec 01, 2003, 01:04 PM
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Maybe you need to have a serious conversation with your boyfriend. There's nothing like honesty although it's really difficult. It makes you feel very vulnerable, but I'm one that would rather know for a fact than go around wondering, making things up in my mind.
 He's making a list and checking it twice...
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