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Old Apr 06, 2006, 03:14 PM
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It is easy for me to be negative about past mistakes and unhappiness. But it is much more healing to look at myself and my past in the light of experience, acceptance and growth. My past is a series of lessons that advanced me to higher levels of living and loving. The relationships that I entered, stayed in, or ended, taught me necessary lessons. Some of us have emerged from the most painful circumstances with strong insights about who we are and what we want.

My mistakes? Necessary. My frustrations, failures and sometimes stumbling attempts at growth and progress? Essential, too. Each step of the way, I learned.

I went through the experiences I needed to, to become who I am today. Each step of the way, I progressed. Is my past a mistake? No. The only mistake I can make is mistaking that for the truth.

Today I am focusing on letting go of negative thoughts that I may be harboring about my past circumstances, or relationships. I can accept, with gratitude, all that has brought me to today.

That's today - I hope and wish for this feeling to stay!
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Old Apr 06, 2006, 03:56 PM
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That's an excellent way to look at things Sabrina.
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Old Apr 06, 2006, 05:39 PM
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Sounds like you have worked hard. Congratulations
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Old Apr 06, 2006, 08:16 PM
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How wonderful!
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Old Apr 06, 2006, 10:10 PM
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good post..i try to do that and one of my major problems is the people around me. they seem to want me to feel down all the time and about every little thing. i'm just detaching from them........it's the only way i can self-preserve. Moving on ... for today
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Old Apr 06, 2006, 11:57 PM
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Wow Sabrina, good for you! I find everything you said to be extremely inspirational. Thanks for sharing!

Best Wishes,
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(((((((( Sabrina )))))))) Moving on ... for today
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