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May 06, 2006, 03:41 PM
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not sure if this is in the right place but i needed to find somewhere to put this , after having children have friends over for sleep over i decided today would be a quiet day taking things easy, playing on a quiz that we are taking part in with a bit of music playing , suddenly heard the children next door screaming hubby checked out the back heard friend arguing with her hubby but there was a bit of violance involved so as he was standing out the back i went out the front the children were on there way to me so i told them to get mum for me , this is were i panicked i didnt know whether to go in or shout or phone the police or what as this isnt normal , she came out and phoned the police her self ( our ploice respond diferantly here to domestics) she has a swollen cheek the police arrived and he went with them quietly , but this has set me of what do yiou do it has upset me and hubby as we are only getting over last year were we argued a lot we only argued and we are still not well ourselves , went shopping but felt very sick even trying to make sense of this with hubby was very hard and has left me with a headache
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May 06, 2006, 08:24 PM
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i'm so sorry that you had to experience that today. i know how bad that must make you feel but i am very glad that you stepped out to help the children. breathe......and just remember that you were doing a good thing. you and hubby will be okay, love, pat
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May 06, 2006, 08:41 PM
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Sounds like you handled that well--a scary situation for sure.
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May 07, 2006, 08:32 AM
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thank you pat just ben , i am glad that i went out when i did it was worse than i thought he actually had a knife to her throat but she said she managed to get a punch in , i havent seen her since yesterday eve and i dont know if hes been released yet or what she took the kids to her mothers so as not to provoke the situation if he came back last night ,
the problem with houses here is they are close togeather and theres is actually attached to ours and you can here quite a bit, but when discussing it with the only other neighbour who looked to see what the kids were screaming about is when do you interfear when do you walk away like i commented on before our police react diferantly to domestics here they dont allways attend or they dont presss charges unless the other person wants to and we all know if a person is being abused they are normally to scared to press charges, i just hope this was a one of because normally they are a nice couple
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No kind action ever stops with itself. One kind action leads to another. Good example is followed. A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees. The greatest work that kindness does to others is that it makes them kind themselves.
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May 08, 2006, 10:27 AM
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Sorry about your bad day... You did well... It brings bad memories come back..... sorry...Lilith
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