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Old May 25, 2006, 03:17 AM
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to cry just a little bit?

is it okay... is it okay... is it okay... is it okay... is it okay...
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Your memory is a monster; you forget - it doesn't. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you - and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you.

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Old May 25, 2006, 04:43 AM
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Yes, it is ok. In fact - it is ok to cry a whole lot.

I am sorry you are crying.

(((stargazerlily)))
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Old May 25, 2006, 09:55 AM
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((((((((StargazerLily))))))))))

Of course it's ok. Sorry you are hurting.

May we help you? Something you want to talk about?
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Old May 25, 2006, 11:22 AM
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(((stargazerlily)))) my shoulder (the left please) is open for crying upon at anytime... please feel free to make use of it....Linda
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Old May 25, 2006, 12:59 PM
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((((( Stargazer )))))
Yes, hun, it's ok to cry as much as you need to. I'm so sorry you are hurting.
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Old May 25, 2006, 02:59 PM
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******HUGS******

Yes, it is okay. I highly recommend it, rather than bottling it all up (negative emotions).

PM me if you want to talk, okay?
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Old May 26, 2006, 12:22 PM
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Just wondering why it hurts more to have someone being sincere and trying to get close to you than it does to just be alone? Its so hard to let my guard down just the slightest bit. Why bother risking getting hurt?
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Your memory is a monster; you forget - it doesn't. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you - and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you.

-John Irving
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Old May 26, 2006, 04:25 PM
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I am sorry that you feel so alone and are afraid to let your guard down. That is what is so great about this board... You won't be judged or no one will go out of their way to hurt you... please let someone in even for just a little while... (((Stargazerliy)))) Linda
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Old May 26, 2006, 11:44 PM
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its so hard cause most times its completely unintentional.
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Your memory is a monster; you forget - it doesn't. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you - and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you.

-John Irving
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Old May 26, 2006, 11:47 PM
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i wanna be held tonight, out here in the real world is it okay... sorry, i know yall care but cyber hugs dont mean anything if i cant remember the feeling of arms around me is it okay...
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Your memory is a monster; you forget - it doesn't. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you - and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you.

-John Irving
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Old May 27, 2006, 07:31 AM
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CRY A LITTLE HOW ABOUT ALOT I HAVE BEEN DEPRESSED FRO DAYS NOT CANT SEEM TO GET OUT OF IT ,, THE WOSE PART FOR ME IS I SEEM TO CUT ALL HAIR OFFF WHEN I AM ,, AND THAT SUCKS, THANKS , MARY
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Old May 27, 2006, 03:55 PM
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((((((((((((stargazerlily)))))))))))))))) I wish they could be 3D hugs but that is the best I can offer right now. I am here if you ever want to talk just PM me.
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Old May 27, 2006, 03:56 PM
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(((((((((((((((Mary))))))))))))) I hope you are feeling better and did not have to cut your hair off. Please be kind to yourself.
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Old May 29, 2006, 09:19 PM
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is it okay... just a little bit more
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Your memory is a monster; you forget - it doesn't. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you - and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you.

-John Irving
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