[skittles]

last night my b/f was looking up personal records tryiong to find some court records.. for fun he put my name in to see what came up... well my name came up and he clicked on it it was from a child support case form when i was little... my moms been keeping a secret from me who my dad is.. and i think i know why now... the same guy shes was sewing in the court case for child support is my aunts ex husband... when i asked my mom a while back who my father was she wouldnt tell me and said that he was dead.. well if this guy she was sewing is my father then he is dad.. and that means i have 4 half brothers and a half sister which is my cousins.. im very confuse and when i asked my mom last night and showed her the records she said how did u find that.. so i think it is veryu true that he is my father... know wonder she didnt want to tell me

[Rhapsody]

I am SORRY and Happy for YOU all at the same time.... for I know that you have been trying to locate the father you never knew..... if only in words / info.

I will PM you about this.... ((((((( hugs )))))))


LoVe,
Rhapsody -

[gardenergirl]

That would be confusing. I imagine I'd have all kinds of mixed feeings about something like that. About all I can say is just to try to be easy with yourself and sit with your feelings, whatever they are at a given moment. It's a lot to take in, so you might want to do some extra self-care. I hope that this new info turns out to be a wonderful blessing for you.

Take care,

gg