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Old Jan 21, 2013, 04:10 AM
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i dont know how much more i can take..
first my brother strangles me, and bout five minutes ago kicked me and hit me and said i may aswell be dead in a grave WELL u know what i wish i bloody were
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Old Jan 21, 2013, 04:14 AM
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I am soooo sorry you are going through all this!! I know it seems everything happens at once, just hang in there! If you need to talk, let me know!!

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Old Jan 21, 2013, 04:33 AM
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I am feeling the same thing right now. Just hang in there
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Old Jan 21, 2013, 08:51 AM
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Teary Me!

"How much can one take?" -- You've been taking so much for so long that you are one of the few people I believe can give a realistic answer to the question. I don't know where you get your strength to keep on enduring, but that strength is truly great. Unfortunately, that strength takes its own toll.

Does your brother mean to harm you again?
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Old Jan 21, 2013, 09:35 AM
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teary, girl ... you two hang in there.
ok, "hang in there" may sound funny given the subject...

"hold on" and "cheer up" maybe? ok, punny jokes apart, what your brother did is against the law. If you don't want to report him, at least let's think ahead and plan the next months out of the situation, what do you think ?
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Old Jan 21, 2013, 07:25 PM
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Teary Me!

"How much can one take?" -- You've been taking so much for so long that you are one of the few people I believe can give a realistic answer to the question. I don't know where you get your strength to keep on enduring, but that strength is truly great. Unfortunately, that strength takes its own toll.

Does your brother mean to harm you again?


im not sure i have much of the strength left in me... and yes he does
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Old Jan 21, 2013, 07:27 PM
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teary, girl ... you two hang in there.
ok, "hang in there" may sound funny given the subject...

"hold on" and "cheer up" maybe? ok, punny jokes apart, what your brother did is against the law. If you don't want to report him, at least let's think ahead and plan the next months out of the situation, what do you think ?

his told me ive got until the 30th jan to get out or im out on the street, it breaks my heart as i do sooo much for his kids always babysitting buying the things etc.
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Old Jan 21, 2013, 07:28 PM
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my sister in law has an appt with emergency housing on thurs but im not allowed to go, cos she wants to tell them they want me out and god knows what.
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Old Jan 21, 2013, 07:54 PM
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Maybe there's a backstory I'm missing here, but can't you report him to the police?
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Old Jan 21, 2013, 11:07 PM
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my sister in law has an appt with emergency housing on thurs but im not allowed to go, cos she wants to tell them they want me out and god knows what.
If it is for you, I am not sure why you can't go..???
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Old Jan 23, 2013, 09:56 PM
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Maybe there's a backstory I'm missing here, but can't you report him to the police?

his my brother so i dont want to do that
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Old Jan 24, 2013, 01:16 AM
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Sweetheart, you are the only one who is going to take care of you. And you deserve to be taken care of. Get out of there and find some help that builds you up instead of buying your brother's lack of respect for you.

You can do this. I'm sure of it.
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Old Jan 24, 2013, 10:05 AM
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i dont know how much more i can take..
first my brother strangles me, and bout five minutes ago kicked me and hit me and said i may aswell be dead in a grave WELL u know what i wish i bloody were
You have to know it is your brother who is the problem and he has turned you into a victim and a target for his problems. If possible. you need some support from a professional to help you deal with him. You are not the problem, he is.
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