[damajdancer]

i keep having flashbacks about him.
every detial is there.
my family wont even try to understand me
and no one is avalible for me to talk to.
im confused cuz if i knew someone in a situation like im in i would help them, but no one is helping me, not even the people closest to me. therefor i am also alone. i dont think its normal to go through something like this alone, so please if u have any support, then give it.
-megan-

Isn't there a counsellor you could see? If you're at school, a psychologist or something? Or maybe some friends who could help? You shouldn't have to go through this alone, please seek (professional) help if at all possible.

hang in there. I felt alone in it to many times but then I found out that I wasnt alone. one day during college sociology class we had a guest speaker from a rape crisis center that was opening a branch office in my town. I started seeing one of their counselors and soon I was meeting others like me in their support group. There are many rape crisis offices and support groups out there call your local hotline number. it should be in your phone book under community services, mental health, rape crisis, domestic violence. any one of those hotlines can get you in touch with an agency in your area that deals with sexual assault and its effects of flashbacks panic attacks and so on. Your local hospital ER will also know of the nearest rape crisis services because they see rape victims everyday and call those services when a rape victim comes in to the ER so that the victim does not have to go through the exam and prosecuting process, if they choose to prosecute.

Also people here give support because they want to and have experienced the problems not because someone seems to be making an ultimatum or demand by saying "If you have any support then give it" when asking for support. Thank you for having that please in there.

I understand it gets frustrating and painful having flashbacks but please try to remember we are for eachother and I personally don't take too kindly to someone demanding my support. I give it willingly because I have gone through what I post and reply to, not because someone says "then give it"

[damajdancer]

thank you much for the advice
i didnt mean to come across rude
i didnt know how else to word it
sorry!
thanx again
-megan-

Thats ok.

no one is perfect here. and I have from time to time worded my posts wrong too.

glad I could help hang in there.

welcome, megan. i see that you're hurting and needing some support. i saw nothing, whatsoever, wrong with the way you worded your plea for support.

i hope that you can find someone to talk to. and you can always come here and someone will be available to listen. and we've all been through either the same thing or something similiar.

you're most welcome here........xoxoxo pat

[damajdancer]

thank you so much
it means alot
-megan-

you're welcome.....hang in there. lots of people here to listen to us.........xoxoxo pat

(((((damajdancer))))
Sometimes people want to help but they just don't know how to.