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I moved to a new town recently and I guess it was a little bit emotionally traumatic. I loathe the Unknown, I like the familiar and habitual. I'm having a terrible time motivating myself to get to the grocery store (big store, more people, congested traffic: this is not sitting well with a former country bumpkin and confirmed agoraphobe), and I am finding myself completely frazzled and unable to deal with more pressing issues, like finding a new doctor and new therapist. I get panicky, I shut down, I get apathetic. Trying to rouse myself to accomplish something productive, *anything* productive, is like kicking a soccer ball filled with cement.
What do you do when you absolutely must get things done but are completely lacking in coping skills, stress tolerance, and fairy dust? |
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Hi Jitters,
Moving in fact is one of the most highly emotional stressors people experience. Those are huge changes. For me, I like to think of it the way you acclimate fish to a different fish tank. Slowly and carefully because the change in temperature is enough to kill them. Take it easy. |
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