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Location: Auckland, Aotearoa
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Sep 02, 2006 at 10:40 PM
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just want to do NOTHING and not be GRUMPED at or ASKED CRAP when i dont wannt do stuff
so sick of this and sick of sarcastic texts from supposed to be sort of seeing boy 'are you still alive - just checking' 'you gone into hiding' blah blah blah just cos i didnt wanna see him at 2am and keep getting asked why i go home early sometimes by other friends ok it may be concern but i have to make so many excuses up bcos of this STUPID THING but why cant i just get over this BY MYSELF and hnot have to explain myself im sorry im whingeing but ive so freakn had enuf |
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Sep 03, 2006 at 12:49 PM
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i know how you feel. its frustrating when people get in your face when all you want is to be alone. unfortunately most people dont understand this feeling so dont realise it has an effect on you.
dont make up excuses, just say to them straight "i dont fancy being out tonight, i just want some quiet time" and then go home. and if this boy texts you things like that again, just reply saying "sorry, i didnt feel like meeting up with you, i just want to be left alone for a while" and make them aware that it isnt anything personal against them and you appreciate their concern but youd rather be left alone when you feel this way. it is really frustrating, i know but you just have to be honest with people. then they will be there waiting for you when you need them and they wont feel bitter about it. take care and dont stress about it, we all need some time to ourselves occasionally. they should understand that. simon |
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Sep 03, 2006 at 10:10 PM
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Drunksunflower,
I am sorry you are feeling this way, but I too would be honest with these people & tell them that you don't feel like going out. It totally pisses me off when my friends msg me & ask if I'm still alive..... Like I can't have time to myself...... I don't have to be available to them every second of everyday. The one thing I am finding is that I have to do things for me, not everyone else, if that means I stay at home, then I stay!! I do hope you feel brighter soon!!! Flinty |
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Sep 04, 2006 at 01:27 AM
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I think it is more about me, to be honest.
I dislike myself for being so lame that I don't wanna go out ... ... but then I flip that into why don't they give me some space... when really I'm probably luck y to have friends as wonderful as they are. perception is a strange thing. |
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Sep 04, 2006 at 02:36 AM
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You are right about perception drunksunflower....
but you are not lame & you still have the right to stay at home if you wish..... I know I too am lucky to have the friends I have, I feel like I don't deserve them, but they like me for me, not coz I go out with them.... (Then again I often wonder why they like me for me, I dont even like me for me!!) Flinty |
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