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Feeling very alone and unwanted today. What I wouldn't give for him to wipe that hatred off his face and just give me a smile..a hug..just a look that says we are ok....
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When the world says, "Give up". Hope whispers, "Try one more time". You were given this life because you are strong enough to live it. Wife of Husband with Ultradian Bipolar 2 Disorder & OCD (currently unmedicated) Me: Survivor of Domestic Abuse and currently Fighting Depression Medication: Bupropion HCL 300 mg Our journey has just begun. |
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Hi holdingonhope. Struggling with him? Have you considered trying to seek support outside of your marriage--maybe develop some close friendships or get a supportive counselor? It sounds like you can't count on him to provide you with it. Please find a way to help yourself--you deserve to feel better.....D.
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aww I'm sorry hun, DePressMe gave wise advice
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I do have some support outside my marriage. I have a friend who is married to a man with BP and we talk often. I have considered getting professional help for myself but as I am the professional I feel a bit odd doing this. Yes I know even therapists need therapists but it still feels like a last resort. I will look into it though as obviously I am just not going to be able to pull out of this on my own.
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While not a mental health professional, I held a very high professional position before my retirement. I am thankful for those times I reached out to a therapist...it was very meaningful and helpful to me and I would encourage you to go ahead with it. It's very validating and clarifying to have someone in your corner, supporting you when you are in a time of trouble and turmoil in your personal life.
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You are correct. Pride goeth before the fall as they say. Ok..I'll make the appointment. Feeling much better today.
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When the world says, "Give up". Hope whispers, "Try one more time". You were given this life because you are strong enough to live it. Wife of Husband with Ultradian Bipolar 2 Disorder & OCD (currently unmedicated) Me: Survivor of Domestic Abuse and currently Fighting Depression Medication: Bupropion HCL 300 mg Our journey has just begun. |
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