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I'm trying to gain insight as to why it is that when my kids fight with each others I feel a sense of sadness.
And when my kid gets angry at me, vents his rage at me, I feel a deep sense of sadness.
Can someone connect the dots for me? What's one thing got to do with the other; why the feeling of sadness?
Thanks!

[dcs_no1_fan]

I cant help sorry but I do know that when my kids fight with each other it makes me sad that they can not like each other as they are still only little I wonder were they get it from & when I ask them they say its from school as thats what there friends say as they have got older brothers & sisters in there teens life can be so crule

[FaithisAlive]

Because you love them and you want them to love each other and you want them to love you too...it hurts your spirit. .making you sad.... I think its normal.

my mom used to cry when my brothers would fight each other... it broke her heart to see it and she never wantd to be in a position where she had to choose sides either.

AS for when your kid treats you with anger.. it hurts.. I get hurt when my teenager talks to me like i am the worst person on the earth.. but I have to try not to take it personally.. he is finding his own voice... he doesn't hate me ..

its okay hun... try not to worry so much...