[jlove973]

Why is it that words always get blown out of proportion/taken out of context. If the person is not damaged or doesn't feel it was a trigger towards them then why does it become more of a problem a bigger issue? I am so depressed and I am usually a pretty bubbly person. I am getting hurt and I don't think that people understand. Especially, when I didn't have a problem and now it just snowballed. I want to laugh and have fun that's all I want. Can anyone offer me some comfort advice with my problem?

i'm sorry for people misunderstanding things. holidays generate all kinds of tensions and people react, instead of responding.

try to detach from the unhappiness and create a place within yourself for your holidays......and keep in touch with us....love, pat

[SeptemberMorn]

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Sweety, it's not always about "you". Lots of times, a misunderstanding comes from the other person, ya know? We don't know what's going on with them, what pressure they're under or if they're having a bad day. Maybe someone said something inadvertently to trigger them... but it wasn't YOU.

C'mon! Think about it! How can "jlove" be THAT powerful to think that SHE caused the whole problem, eh? If you are, give me your secret! LOL There are times I'd like to cause someone a great big problem NOW and I can't even make the slightest ripple.