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Old Jun 10, 2014, 12:22 AM
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So...I have a friend (we'll call her that since she's more than a casual aquaintance, but I don't really have 'friends'), anyway, she shows up at my house this evening. She is still here. On her phone texting the entire time. Now, I don't mind the texting in the sense that it means I don't really have to be social or play much of a hostess, but...I'd really rather be alone! I can't bring myself to tell her to leave, but in my head I've screamed it a thousand times since she's been here. Also, I can't in good conscience tell her to leave because she brought her infant daughter with her and she has been drinking. Honestly, I suspect that's the reason she stopped by...free childcare while she gets drunk. I'm just annoyed as all get out.

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Old Jun 10, 2014, 12:33 AM
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This has happened to me a couple times before. People invite themselves to stay over and I'm way too nice to ever say no. Just a couple days ago, I just wanted to sleep and be alone and they stayed over without an invitation and they kept talking and being loud, all I wanted to do was sleep, I was extremely frustrated. I just took my sleeping pills and slept. I can feel your pain right now.

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Old Jun 10, 2014, 12:40 AM
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YES,Pisces! That is exactly what has happened tonight. I really just want to be alone. I want to zone out on Criminal Minds until I fall asleep, but instead I'm basically babysitting her and her child...
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Old Jun 10, 2014, 01:01 AM
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that sucks. Good luck and hopefully tomorrow's a better day!

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Old Jun 10, 2014, 05:11 AM
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My friends absolutely knew when I was in a depression because i would not answer the door or the phone for anyone. I had a front gate and they would jump the back fence and get in through my slider. They thought they were helping by trying to drag me out. It didn't help. Just leave me the F alone. Eventually they got the picture and would leave me alone until I made the phone call that I was better.
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