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Default Jan 16, 2007 at 05:03 PM
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for so long I have acted like nothing was ever wrong. I am a tough old bird and I can handle it. I am a depressed person. there I said it. I can't do the things I use to do due to physical limitations. I can't earn a living anymore, I can't clean my house anymore, I can hardly stand up long enough to cook a meal anymore, the list goes on and on. I even fooled a therapist when I had to go for my psych eval for my workman's comp. she put in her report she was surprised I was not depressed with all that is going on with me. Well duh! I have fooled most everyone I know. I am going on meds though and hopefully it will help somewhat. never have before but maybe this time right? anyway I am depressed due to circumstances that I can't control so we will see. thanks for letting me get this off my chest.

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Oh, hon... It's a big step admitting that you're depressed... the first step in getting the proper help.
I was just the same before I totaly went to pieces. I'm still putting on a faked smile very often.
You're inner-self is in need for some good feeding. I would suggest that you seek a therapist and tell that person about how you're really feeling inside. Continue to open up to us here on PC. We care about you and our ears are yours!

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Default Jan 16, 2007 at 05:14 PM
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I hope the meds are beneficial for you. I try to hide being depressed, but I'm not so good at it myself.

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Default Jan 16, 2007 at 05:48 PM
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thanks nina. I am working on it.

christina thanks hon. I usually do very well hiding it but I am tired of doing that. thanks hon

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you don't have to hide it with us.....never!!!! that eats us alive.....stuffing our stuff just wears us our and down......talk all you need to. we're here......love, pat
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you are most welcome..........xoxoxo pat
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Sorry Bee that things aren't going great. I found that I have depression all my life.
Just try to find something that makes you happy and focus on that. Good luck
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well if I were to hit a multi million dollar lottery I might feel better lol.
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(((((((((be)))))))) Actually, there are a lot of research studies showing that people who win the lottery end up just as depressed, if not moreso, AFTER they win the lottery. hiding it

I'm glad you're getting help. PM if you need to vent.

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thanks fuzzy.

candy I never play the lottery lol but yes I think you are right about those stats! sad isn't it?

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Bebop I hope the best for you and I think you are very courageous in taking the right steps for your life and your health. Take care Soidhonia

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yeah, hun I know what ya mean too....its how we learn to cope.. putting on the mask every day.... mine is crumbling under the pressure of chronic painand fatigue....

I think its okay to let go and seek help so I hope you find something that helps you...Wishing you the best!FaithisALive

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Hi Bee,

I am so glad that you are going to start meds. I do hope it will help you.

Know that you have our support and let us know how you do.

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