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Jul 13, 2014, 09:16 PM
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I know it seems like I'm a lost puppy but... I think I might be it. If you were able to read my last stuff I have going on which has gotten me to my depression. So I was wondering if there is skills to get over a guy that you "love"? It pathetic that I'm even asking but I don't want my parents getting angry at me for being sad over a boy. I will try anything. Just help me. 😢
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Jul 14, 2014, 08:15 AM
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Give yourself permission to grieve is the best advise I have ever been given in that situation. If you are hurt feel hurt. If you are angry feel angry. You may very well obsess over getting back together but try not to act on those thoughts. It is normal to have them. Eventually with time and allowing yourself to grieve you will let him go and be ok. Acceptance it is called.
Talk about it until you are blue in the face to whoever will listen and not try to fix you. Post a lot here. Journal about it. Write it all out. Cry. Pray for the strength not to act on the obsessions if you are so inclined and for the strength to get through it.
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Jul 14, 2014, 01:12 PM
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Hello, Sunflower346.
In light of your hospitalizations and bipolar diagnosis, it would be wise to talk to your doctor(s) about your grieving a relationship. The grief and bipolar may interact in ways that make it worse -- grieving a close relationship is agony in any case. I regret your parents do not wish to accept your diagnosis. Please make yourself at home here.
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Jul 14, 2014, 02:13 PM
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Thanks but I can't speak to a doctor without my parents permission and they feel as if I don't need to go for that.
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