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Old Nov 13, 2014, 11:03 PM
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Dated her for two years. Got engaged, she got my initials tatted on her ring finger. We set up marriage plans everything, we were supposed to get married in a few months actually. The house of cards fell. She opened up and said everything she told me was a lie, she has been in a relationship since before we met (why she got my name tatted on ring finger while with someone else I don't know), found out she started using meth, she started stealing from everyone we know including me from my house. Caught her with another guy, which ironically was my sisters friends boyfriend but they don't know that. She started telling me she's been sleeping at other guys houses. Basically she developed into someone I don't even know... I don't even drink... She started using meth. She started offering me to sell herself for sex and give me the money... She started doing that but instead if taking the money I told her to GTFO and never spoke to her again. I drove her home, saw text on her phone when she was using it from her ex saying they banged night before and saw text with other dude. None of these numbers were saved, just numbers but I know, and on the brink of losing me she started unfolding everything and telling me this. She was set to go in a vacation with her sister to Florida where her ex lives now I know that was probably a hooker job. I'm filled with so much pressure and anger I just don't know how to let go or what to make if this. Any advice please thanks.

Also, I haven't spoken to her in over a month but, I have this really, really bad feeling, like something bad happened. Like she lost her place to live, got on bad terms with her family, I just have this eating inside of me that something bad is happening.

But who knows, maybe she is high on meth and everything is just happy go lucky for her and these feelings are just feelings.
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Alone & confused, bluekoi

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Old Nov 13, 2014, 11:41 PM
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Oh my God! I am so sorry! Wow! I'm at a loss for words! Who the hell does that? That's crazy! I don't know what to tell you, but if you need to talk it all out you can PM me and vent it all out. I'm bipolar and that bs wouldn't sit well with me AT ALL! So she just sprang all this on you out of nowhere? WTF?? I'll get back with you if I can find some useful advice to give, but right now I can't wrap my head around this!
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Old Nov 13, 2014, 11:50 PM
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Oh my God! I am so sorry! Wow! I'm at a loss for words! Who the hell does that? That's crazy! I don't know what to tell you, but if you need to talk it all out you can PM me and vent it all out. I'm bipolar and that bs wouldn't sit well with me AT ALL! So she just sprang all this on you out of nowhere? WTF?? I'll get back with you if I can find some useful advice to give, but right now I can't wrap my head around this!

I'm honestly to depressed to talk... but I havent been able to talk to anyone about this as my family doesn't want to hear it, they didn't like her from the start.

is it cool to chat?
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Old Nov 13, 2014, 11:51 PM
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I'm honestly to depressed to talk... but I havent been able to talk to anyone about this as my family doesn't want to hear it, they didn't like her from the start.

is it cool to chat?
Yeah sure!
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