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Elder
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Dec 04, 2014 at 10:29 PM
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I finally stood up for myself and what do I get..... "where am I going to put this?" "your not strong enough" I'm hurt by that. I stood up for me and what do I get, attitude and disrespect. Worst of all, it increases my risk level. I don't want to keep living in this environment if that's what I get all the time. I feel like the space is 75%/25%... that is only 25% mine. Yet the rent is 50/50.... I can't keep feeling like this, and living with someone that reminds me that I am not well. The only thing that I can think of is to talk with my parents and have them help to straighten things out. I have so much stuff to do.... and so much crap to deal with. I want my own Christmas decor up, not just her's. I'm even sitting on her couch and it is a constant reminder.
She also says, I have headaches so you can learn to deal with them too..... sorry but I don't think so, I'm not you, and you are not always right. Last edited by puzzclar; Dec 04, 2014 at 10:45 PM.. |
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Dec 04, 2014 at 11:36 PM
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puzzclar, have you tried being reasonable and negotiating with your roommate?
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Elder
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Dec 05, 2014 at 12:24 AM
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She came up with a compromise but, how she reacted wasn't helpful, plus my head is just killing me.... and I found out for the last 4 days I have been taking the wrong med out of what I have been taking... and may have taken two last night..... one reason for why my head is just hurting so freaking bad. and why I can't think straight. I sure hope the half life of the med is short.
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