[kindheartedxo]

I'm on here because I see my mom suffer everyday and cry in pain because my dad and her are not doing well together . He is cheating on my mom I believe but he denies and says he is doing nothing but we both find that hard to believe he doesn't pay any attention to my mom or me and my brother he just comes home after work and goes straight to his room on the computer and showers and sometimes goes out ! He acts single and that he can do whatever he wants but when my mom does something he gets really mad which makes him a hypocrite and she talks to me about it and all this other crazy stuff but she won't confront him or talk to him and I know this is not my place to post this but I think something should be done this gets worse everyday that passes by ! She is always crying non stop and in pain and stressed and extremely depressed and she has her own health problems and is going threw hell. But yet they still stay together ? This is scarey and terrifying and not good at all . I have tried giving her plenty of advice and help but she won't take it and hesitates and just leaves it how it is . Doesn't seem fair or right to me at all!! She is not happy. They used to be so happy together and in love and love each other until my grandma moved in (my dads mom) could this be the reason why or one of them why everything went down hill and why there relationship is being ruined ? Please help

[Lexi232]

Im sorry that you are having to go through this.
There's a lot of unknown going on there. In the end, sadly there is no way to make either of them do anything.
my own biological mom, i had to just cut off contact with her. things seemed horrible and only got worse, and she would come to me to help her. but end the end, no matter what i said or did, she is still with the guy. i have found out over the years that my bio mom likes to "play victim", as she thrives in the attention she gets from it. it doesnt really sound like your mom is like that though. she may be scared of a lot of things(where to sleep, what might change, etc.) . she really needs a therapist...
my goes out to you!

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