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I lost my mind yesterday because of someone being critical of me, this in turn lead to me trying to take my own life. I'm glad though I didn't succeed and I can try to recover from all this.
Is anyone else unable to deal with criticism? I used to be able to but not now in my current state that I have been in for about 2 or more years. |
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Criticism is something that i have trouble dealing with because I tend to think everything is all black or all white, therefore, if I'm criticized I must be all bad. Of course, this leaves me feeling bad. Fortunately, my counselor helps me sort through it so I can see I don't have to be perfect to be okay.
I'm really glad you didn't succeed, too. Hang in there.
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Criticism is tough on me too. Mostly because whatever anyone is mentioning that is critical is usually something that I've already beat myself up over.
I hope you are feeling better
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I have become generally stress-intolerant, and I'm now socially isolated. On those rare occasions I'm exposed to external, real-world criticism, if the criticism can cut through my apathy it can put me in a dangerous place.
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i'm so glad you didn't succeed. yes, i agree criticism can be very hard particularly for depressives.
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I'm quite sensitive when it comes to criticism, but I'm learning to appreciate constructive criticism. The kind of criticism that helps me understand my flaws, so I can improve. When I work with other people, and they depend on me, I should always be open to suggestions and even criticism.
but if you're being unfairly criticized, i think it's best to ignore it, let it bounce off you, don't give it much thought. I know it's very hard, but for me, accepting that I can't please everyone has helped. |
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Thanks everyone for your insight and opinions. One day I will be able to deal with and overcome criticism.
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