[Confusedabouteveryt]

Hello to the people who reading this is just going to be me talk about my insecurity's. So I just turned 15 yesterday and I got up and looked in the mirror realized I look like my dad. I hate my dad he never been there for me only seen him once told me he was going to do a bunch of stuff for me then left me high and dry. Anyway, I'm never what I like people tell me I'm not ugly, but to me, I am, I never like my haircuts never like my clothes just not comfortable in my own skin. It really depresses me bring to my knee screaming. I just don't get it when well I ever be comfortable in my skin.
I really want to get a girlfriend and a good group of friends. My last group of friend I didn't like there were the "cool kids" but truly they were just assholes who couldn't see pass their own nose. I also never had a girlfriend. Girls liked me, but wasn't my type of girls. I really don't think I will ever get the type of girls I like since I guess I'm ugly I'm really not sure if I am or not. People always have to reassure about my clothes and my haircut its really annoying at this point. Sorry my message so long just getting stuff off my mind. Is there anyone else like me who not comfortable in their own skin? Once again, sorry just writing about my insecurity and stuff even though you probably don't care.What are some you guys insecurity's?

[l00king4answers79]

Hey, I'm sorry to hear that you're struggling with insecurities. We've all been there. I'm not 100% secure with the way I look but I'm definitely better of now at age 21 than I was at 15 like you. What worked for me was "fake it till you make it" just fake the confidence and it might help you gain real confidence. Like I said... It worked for me!

Don't worry about getting a girlfriend right now, it'll happen, I promise. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 19, my friend didn't have one until she was 23, don't stress about it, just be yourself and the right people will gravitate to you. It's gonna be a difficult road but you can get through it.

As for your father, I'm sorry he did that to you, you deserve better, but I'm confident you can make it through!

[Confusedabouteveryt]

Originally Posted by l00king4answers79

Hey, I'm sorry to hear that you're struggling with insecurities. We've all been there. I'm not 100% secure with the way I look but I'm definitely better of now at age 21 than I was at 15 like you. What worked for me was "fake it till you make it" just fake the confidence and it might help you gain real confidence. Like I said... It worked for me!

Don't worry about getting a girlfriend right now, it'll happen, I promise. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 19, my friend didn't have one until she was 23, don't stress about it, just be yourself and the right people will gravitate to you. It's gonna be a difficult road but you can get through it.

As for your father, I'm sorry he did that to you, you deserve better, but I'm confident you can make it through!

Thank you for your reply really made my day better and I will take your advice and fake it until I make it.

[Dan208]

I'm almost 36 and have never been comfortable in my own skin. I think it gets worse as I get older. You are not alone.