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Unhappy Dec 02, 2015 at 10:24 AM
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It's happened again
This was someone (a doctor in fact..) I trusted IRL, which is very rare for me.
It wasn't anything I did, or anything about me.
It's the "System", it's what they call "life" and I'm tired of it

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Default Dec 02, 2015 at 10:38 AM
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It was one of those times you feel a sense of loss, even though you didn't have something in the first place. I guess that's what disappointment is- a sense of loss for something you never had.
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Gotta loavve that mechanised robotic voice on the end of the phone

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Good quote
I'm not sure this completely fits though. This doctor was one of those rare doctors who truly did care for their patients, after all these years I can tell the difference

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It was one of those times you feel a sense of loss, even though you didn't have something in the first place. I guess that's what disappointment is- a sense of loss for something you never had.
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i hope you feel better soon.
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I'm sorry, dear Fuzzybear.
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So sorry, Fuzzybear.

On phoning for Scan results today, I found my trusted GP has suddenly returned to his own Country, never to return. He was the second in 2 years to do this after I opened up.

At least I have some sort of relationship with the Dr treating my liver issues, maybe I can develop something there over time.

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So sorry, Fuzzybear.

On phoning for Scan results today, I found my trusted GP has suddenly returned to his own Country, never to return. He was the second in 2 years to do this after I opened up.

At least I have some sort of relationship with the Dr treating my liver issues, maybe I can develop something there over time.

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Is there anything in this world the system can't screw up?

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Sorry FuzzyBear and EnglishDave. Losing out on a pcp is hard... and having to give up a good dr. I was forced to do that a couple years ago because they were beyond 30 miles. I dropped my dr. that got me my disability. Now i am dealing with wanna bes who took me off all my meds... I bang my head against the wall. I truly understand and you all have my empathy... (((hugs)))
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Default Dec 03, 2015 at 11:16 AM
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Thanks so much everyone

This really sucks, it's been so long (if ever) since I trusted a "professional" .. why do the good ones leave and the others continue to hurt people with their barbed and judgemental attitudes

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Good quote
I'm not sure this completely fits though. This doctor was one of those rare doctors who truly did care for their patients, after all these years I can tell the difference
Yeah, i understand, it is the system

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