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Aug 13, 2016, 02:49 AM
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She's dead. Just like that, dead. I keep expecting her to come into the hospital room to check on her boyfriend. To check on my best friend. But she's not coming. She's never coming back. And now my best friend, my brother, is so heart broken that he can barely function. I lost my friend but he lost the love of his life. And this is the only time in my entire life that I have no idea how to make it all better. I don't know how to help him. I can't. I'm just here. I can't save him from this. I can't protect him.
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Aug 13, 2016, 07:42 AM
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Just being there will be a help. He will need his family around him as he goes through the days ahead. You will be helping him by just being there.
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Bipolar I, Depression, GAD Meds: Zoloft, Zyprexa, Ritalin "Each morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most." -Buddha  |
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Aug 13, 2016, 08:07 AM
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 I'm sorry for your loss... it's hard to watch people we care about hurt so badly...
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Aug 13, 2016, 08:15 AM
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So sorry for your loss, big hugs
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#5
Aug 13, 2016, 08:50 AM
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So sorry for your loss, and your brother's as well.
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#6
Aug 13, 2016, 12:57 PM
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All the best to your brother, and you. All you can do is help him heal the best you can, and take care of yourself too. |
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#7
Aug 13, 2016, 03:52 PM
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Very sorry for your loss
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#8
Aug 13, 2016, 03:52 PM
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I got the call from the hospital and was also the one who they wanted to tell him that she didn't make it. He was begging "Where's Shannon?". I would've given anything to tell him something different. I couldn't talk, just shook my head. On top of that, I think I'm finally realizing that my friend is dead, too. I lost my friend and he lost the love of his life. He was going to marry her. I don't know what to do right now. |
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Aug 13, 2016, 04:46 PM
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I am sorry for your loss. Sending lots of hugs to you, your family and your friends family.
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Dx: BP2 and MDD Current meds: 100mg Wellbutrin; 200mg Lamictal; 400mg Seroquel at night; Xanax 1mg/PRN; 100mg/PRN Trazodone at night for insomnia Diagnosed in May 2016 |
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Aug 13, 2016, 05:12 PM
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I'm sorry for y'all's loss ...
 The only advice I can offer is to simply be there for one another ... Even if you don't know what to say or do ... Sincerely, Pfrog! 
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Aug 13, 2016, 07:11 PM
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so sorry for your loss. like the others say just try to be strong for your brother right now, he will really need your comfort and support.
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