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Aug 25, 2016, 07:48 PM
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My ex boyfriend is coming to visit (basically his pug) I've had her for over a year and I really love her. I'm worried that he is going to continue his rants stating my severe flaws that I have, tell me I don't make him happy anymore. I'm don't want to hear it, since he is not remembering that I have severe depression and he's has made me even more depressed. I've seen my psychiatrist more times this month, like every other week when it used to be once a month. She put in a request for ECT and I hope they approve me. Ex boyfriend is being such a d***!
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Aug 25, 2016, 08:22 PM
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Can you have a supportive friend with you while he visits? He might behave himself better if there's a witness.
Also, the way he acts says far more about him than it does about you. Sent from my SM-T350 using Tapatalk |
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Aug 25, 2016, 09:08 PM
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Don't let him talk to you at all if he upsets you. If he starts saying negative things cut him off, your not his gf any more.
I REALLY like PurplePanda's idea... Have a friend there when he visits. Also REALLY TRUE that this is about him needing to hurt you to make himself feel better. Good luck and let us know how it goes.
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Aug 26, 2016, 09:07 AM
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Aug 26, 2016, 10:17 AM
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Thank You Everyone for chiming in��I don't have any friends but my mom will be here and she loves me as I am. I will finally stick up for myself and not let him bring me to tears (which makes him mad). It's true I need to only worry about myself.
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Aug 27, 2016, 05:31 AM
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Good for you! You show him that you're in control of the situation, and that he's not going to push you around. He's not your guy anymore, he has no claim on you whatsoever, and if he's not going to treat you with respect, he can show himself to the door! Show this guy that you're not a pushover, (even if you really don't feel like that inside) fake it till you make it! Best Academy Awards moment sweetie! We have faith in you, plus you'll have your mom there for support!
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Aug 27, 2016, 07:55 AM
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Hi,
I wish you the best for this visit. And remember, his words are sickening like food that is gone. You have the right to protect yourself against things that damage you. I am sending you a hug
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Aug 27, 2016, 07:35 PM
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Well he never texted or called. Every couple of hrs I cry. I try to think about how I can back into the dating world. I'm certainly not ready now, it's too soon and I'm a mess. Because of my PTSD and general concern about human nature. I just don't want to be hurt again, physically or emotionally.
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