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I was some years older than the half brothers and the "privileges" or lack of them were entirely different... I didn't even meet them for a ridiculously long time.
(Btw I don't know why I even posted this.. I feel like "just a whiner" don't air your dirty laundry in public this was indoctrinated into me..don't talk,,you aren't worthy of breathing ) I always wanted to play the piano, however the father was too mean to buy me a second hand piano... (But I was "mean" and "selfish" ) But naturally the half brothers had a piano... I would actually have been good at the piano if I'd had a chance to learn it, and as the mother of one of my school friends said when I eventually bought a piano myself before I was thrown out "you'll be able to express yourself through this" or something. She didn't like me, few did, I was "too quiet" ... It makes me so how I was labelled by a "professional" (IRL) I wish some of them had the Ability to actually listen Kind of vital, I would have thought __________________ Last edited by Fuzzybear; Oct 10, 2016 at 05:12 PM.. |
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Wisest Elder Ever
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Useless bear, still can't use the freakin iPad properly useless
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You didn't air your dirty laundry in public... & since no one in the family wanted to hear it either... you just kept it to yourself... if you knew what was good for you...
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You're not "whining". You're hurting and needing to get it out and talk about it, somehow. Don't apologize for it, Fuzzy. If I had a problem with that sort of thing, I wouldn't be a member of PC. We're here to help each other, if only to listen. We're here.
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Mud does stick. Worse, some wounds never heal.
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Did your expressed (?) desire for piano become a weapon in the hands of those who wanted (who needed?) you to feel bad? Maybe you had to be quiet in order to survive. When everything you say might become a psychological weapon in the hands of those who mean you harm, then "quietness" is safer. ((((((( Fuzzybear ))))))) __________________ My dog mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it. |
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It's sad to hear how your family mistreated you.
You don't need to be quiet here. Say what you need to say. |
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