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Oct 19, 2016, 06:28 PM
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Hello,
I'm not well. Physically, mentally or emotionally. I have found out that my husband has been seeing prostitutes, escorts, etc our whole marriage of 11 years. He lost his job because of it. He is considered a sex addict and is in counseling three times a week. I then find out he has opened credit cards in my name wracking up a huge amount of debt.. I mean huge. Then I find out we owe 20,000 in back taxes because of issues which I can't go into. However, he never told me, has been forging my name on IRS documents. I just happened to intercept a piece of mail. I then find out we owe the VA back money because he didn't file correctly... another thing he didn't tell me, I just happened to find a piece of mail. Plus I'm sick and on Chemo therapy. I'm on permanent disability. Today I go online to check my son's grades and he is failing two classes. He is in high school. I'm so so exhausted... so so depressed....so so in need of change, happiness, something |
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Oct 20, 2016, 08:10 AM
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I'm soo soo sorry. That is a ton of crap to deal with. I'm with you on the life sucks thing, but you can make it better. Lots of hard work, and the way I see it, I just have to keep going. Since you said you have a son, and I have a daughter, it's basically having to go on because you have a child to care for. And leaving my daughter behind is not an option for me. I don't know what to tell you to do, but I feel for you. Hope you can find strength to fight for yourself. No one has the right to take advantage of you that way. Hugs
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Oct 20, 2016, 09:01 AM
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That's a lot to have to deal with. No wonder that you are not doing okay. I hope you are in therapy and have a good support system. What your husband has done is not okay. Forging your name and opening credit cards in your name are illegal. He should be held accountable. I've been through chemo and it is stressful. I feel for you.
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Oct 20, 2016, 09:40 AM
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Oct 20, 2016, 09:45 AM
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I would definitely suggest therapy or counseling to get through this. Way too much stress to deal with on your own. I'm wishing you all the best.
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