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Old Oct 09, 2017, 01:37 PM
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I just said something negative

I triggered papa bear

There are some who believe our triggers belong to us... for the most part I agree. I don’t think I would say to papa bear or anyone “you trigger me”. If I’d married someone I thought that way about I’d be in big ****.

I tried to be really careful and explain how I’m “just feeling a bit stressed”

But I triggered papa bear.... he felt sick. That’s how I make him feel

So I could go down that “road” again

(Please don’t tell me to move on I wish I could )

I triggered papa bear

Therefore

I am a nasty triggery bear

Even though I would never ever trigger him intentionally. I may be possibly not as intelligent in some areas as some I’ve crossed paths with (not any online person) but I’m not freakin stupid

I’ve gone off topic.

Fortunately I backtracked as soon as papa bear started feeling sick.

For crying out loud fuzzy paws..

“Grow up” and just “cope”



I’m sorry about the rant. I don’t know how long it will stay up for..... I’m not sure I “should” even speak anywhere, sometimes

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Old Oct 09, 2017, 01:47 PM
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Old Oct 09, 2017, 01:47 PM
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Old Oct 09, 2017, 02:00 PM
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don't be so hard on yourself fuzzy..
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Old Oct 09, 2017, 02:04 PM
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Sometimes even sweet, well-meaning bears accidentally hurt their loved ones. It doesn't make that bear any less sweet or well meaning.
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Old Oct 09, 2017, 02:14 PM
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Lots of love to you, Fuzzy. In my brief time here, you have really helped me.

It's good for you to tell us how you're honestly feeling.

You didn't hurt him on purpose.
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Old Oct 09, 2017, 08:32 PM
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I'm sorry Fuzzy, for both of you.
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Old Oct 09, 2017, 10:19 PM
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