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Old Oct 19, 2017, 03:05 PM
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I’m not a strong person. I’ve been bullied but it was my fault. I’m not intelligent. The bullies said I deserved to be rejected and bullied. I’m sure they were right. They were stronger than me. I don’t have the energy to keep fighting back. I want to isolate completely. The bullies said nobody likes me.
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Old Oct 19, 2017, 03:32 PM
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(((((((( Mountainstream ))))))))

Bullies are often “subtle” and cunning .. not in a good way. They pick out what they think are somebody else’s “weaknesses” and completely fail to work on their own weaknesses . Some don’t even bother to try, they enjoy hurting others . How sad They may think they are more intelligent than you are. That sort of “intelligence” counts for little. Karma, or whatever .... does exist.

I think you’re a kind and caring person, that’s what matters more than what bullies say and do. Please cut these jerks out of your life if you can. They can stick their crap up their *** where it belongs

Peace to you
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Old Oct 19, 2017, 03:38 PM
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The bullies were wrong. I like you. I don't care what you think of yourself.
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Old Oct 19, 2017, 04:11 PM
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I’m not a strong person. I’ve been bullied but it was my fault. I’m not intelligent. The bullies said I deserved to be rejected and bullied. I’m sure they were right. They were stronger than me. I don’t have the energy to keep fighting back. I want to isolate completely. The bullies said nobody likes me.
I know how true it *feels*.

If it helps, I am certain beyond doubt that victims of bullying are absolutely not the ones at fault.

I haven't been around as long as many of the others here, so I don't know your history. But your recent string of posts sound like you're in a really bad place right now. I'm so sorry. Please try not to continue to internalize what the bullies said. It may feel impossible to find some days, but there is compassion in this world.

We are here for you.
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Old Oct 19, 2017, 04:33 PM
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As someone who has experienced bullying, you are not at fault. No one deserves to be bullied or rejected. I’m sorry you are struggling right now. You are not weak....it was the bully that was the weak one. Are you seeing a therapist to help you process and realize that truth? Do you think it would be beneficial? Sending big hugs.
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Old Oct 19, 2017, 04:35 PM
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Gosh, hearing of this type of thing always saddens me. The thought of some cruel, unkind, hurtful ''people'' making someone feel so much sadness is so incomprehensible Please know you are very different from them. Their deliberate intention to make you feel this way shows you are far more kind and compassionate than them. Those monsters who said these harsh things to you are not worth your thoughts. Who cares if someone is not intelligent?? Being rude is far worse than lacking intelligence.

Forget the bullies. Always try your hardest to forget the bullies. Ignore them, always. I want you to have a wonderful evening, you deserve it after all this!!!! Treat yourself to something you enjoy!!

I really, really, really wish you well, mountainstream. You have a beautiful username
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Old Oct 19, 2017, 04:58 PM
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