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Junior Member
Member Since Nov 2017
Location: Canada
Posts: 21
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Being alone is not a bad thing.....it’s feeling lonely that hurts. Please try to make some new friends.....is there no one in your building that you can try to befriend? Maybe bring them a plate of freshly baked cookies & start a conversation? I know you said you don’t like the people in your building but you don’t really know them do you? It seems like the best place to start. Also, are you allowed pets where you live? Cats make wonderful companions (of course I am a cat lover ).
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Member Since Jul 2017
Location: World
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While loneliness is known to cause health problems to an extend that speed up someone’s mortality, I do my best not to ever entertain that thought because if I do, the darkness takes over and I lose my control. So please, try not to focus on how alone you are. From what you have shared, it is not in your control and the more you focus on that fact, the worse you might feel. From what I understand, here at PC., some people are in a similar boat. I know of some members, including myself, who have no family or close friends. I am not sharing this information to downgrade your situation, not at all. I am sharing it so you know that you aren’t alone. I realize that what I just shared with you doesn’t make your situation any easier or ease your pain but I hope it will enable you to feel more comfortable around us, as we are also suffering from similar challenges and we can fight together. The power of community can bring miracles to one’s life. I am sorry that you cannot reconnect with your brother. It does hurt more when the wounds are caused by our own blood. __________________ [B]'Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind. Always.' |
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Location: USA
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#23
I don’t know what to say to help you feel better. I wish I did. I’m sorry about your situation and I do care and I’d like to offer my support. Please keep posting to vent/talk.
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How are you holding up? __________________ [B]'Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind. Always.' |
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