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i am happy when with my boyfriend. when he is not around i get very depressed.
is this normal? am i the only one that acts this way? |
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Well... I don't know.
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To be honest this doesn't sound like depression. Typically depression continues inspite of who is around.
That being said can you spend more time with friends or take up a hobby while your boyfriend is not around? Something to occupy your time and have some fun. ![]() |
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I think it's very normal for you to be sad when he's not around..I'm going through the same thing but the relationship I was in wasn't healthy so I have had to remove myself from the situation..I love him very much so this is really hard to deal with, day to day. I normally spend every minute with him(for the last 2 years) and now I don't see him and rarely hear from him. I hope with time I can get past this..Good luck with your sadness.
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I live with chronic depression and chronic pain. I often feel a little better when my husband is around. I think it's normal to feel a bit of relief when someone we love is around. We were not meant to isolate, in my opinion; even so, I do like my alone time.
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I think it's normal; however, you have to learn to be happy with yourself, withouth relying too much on other people.
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