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Confused Mar 03, 2018 at 07:52 PM
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I don't know if I am party killer, mood killer, or just shunned by everyone. It seems like many times I post something, it ends that thread.

Am I boring? Do I smell? (I promise I use soap)

Maybe my reputation precedes me?

Perhaps I am being blackballed?

Naw, can't be any of those reasons

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Well I was going to mention your smell. Just kidding. Don't sweat it. Chalk it up to coincidence and nothing more.
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Default Mar 03, 2018 at 11:10 PM
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I don't come on here that often, and when I do, I don't read all the threads.

My advice, If you feel people are ignoring you, TALK LOUDER!!!

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Default Mar 04, 2018 at 01:34 PM
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Hi Perry

Do you think that maybe sometimes that could actually be seen as a credit to you?
It might be that you've said just what some other people are thinking so they don't feel they need to follow on- they've connected with what you said, it might be that you've put an idea into someone's head meaning they don't need to say what they were going to, it might be that some people think that you've replied much more succinctly than they ever could, it might be some people just respect what you've said and don't feel the need to add to it..........
So many positive reasons that could happen for, with many reasons you may well deserve kudos on ending a thread



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Default Mar 04, 2018 at 06:28 PM
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Hi Perry

Do you think that maybe sometimes that could actually be seen as a credit to you?
It might be that you've said just what some other people are thinking so they don't feel they need to follow on- they've connected with what you said, it might be that you've put an idea into someone's head meaning they don't need to say what they were going to, it might be that some people think that you've replied much more succinctly than they ever could, it might be some people just respect what you've said and don't feel the need to add to it..........
So many positive reasons that could happen for, with many reasons you may well deserve kudos on ending a thread



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Thanks Allison,

Never looked at it that way. And even if I did, I wouldn't believe myself. Coming from someone else puts more credence to it.

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Default Mar 06, 2018 at 02:48 PM
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Thanks for the reply Perry

Sometimes it can help arguing different perspectives with yourself, and then sometimes (as in this case) those can be definitely possibilities.........



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