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Default Mar 23, 2018 at 11:40 AM
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What do you do ?

It hurts so much.
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Default Mar 23, 2018 at 11:49 AM
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I think it's 'healthy' to believe that they simply didn't feel the same way back.

Hundreds of possibilities....
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Default Mar 23, 2018 at 12:08 PM
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Move on,its far more important that you feel cared for.
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Default Mar 23, 2018 at 12:30 PM
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I think it's 'healthy' to believe that they simply didn't feel the same way back.

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You are 100% right, I’m sure they care but in a different way, but it’s just my weak mind that comes up with these thoughts, I wish I could train my mind or do something
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Default Mar 23, 2018 at 12:46 PM
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You are 100% right, I’m sure they care but in a different way, but it’s just my weak mind that comes up with these thoughts, I wish I could train my mind or do something
You have already trained your mind to do something. You seeking answers.
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Default Mar 23, 2018 at 01:12 PM
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If they don't care back, you can't "force" them to. I'm sorry this is happening to you...
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Default Mar 23, 2018 at 01:24 PM
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I know it hurts, but I personally don't invest my time, energy and heart into people who don't invest back. If they don't care, they aren't meant to be part of your tribe and that's okay. It leaves room for people who are meant to be there. Hugs.
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Default Mar 23, 2018 at 01:31 PM
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I think I do this a lot to my father. He cares a lot for me and I don't reciprocate.

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Default Mar 23, 2018 at 05:02 PM
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Well, sometimes I can't tell if someone is joking or not. I asked my friend to trust me and they said 'why should i trust you', but it seemed like the conversation was just light-hearted. i don't know. Maybe it's just me.

Maybe normal people don't ask friends if they trust them because it's just implied.

I'm just messed up trying to understand this.
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Default Mar 23, 2018 at 05:03 PM
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If they don't care back, you can't "force" them to. I'm sorry this is happening to you...
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Default Mar 23, 2018 at 05:05 PM
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I know it hurts, but I personally don't invest my time, energy and heart into people who don't invest back. If they don't care, they aren't meant to be part of your tribe and that's okay. It leaves room for people who are meant to be there. Hugs.
I invested a lot of time in this person, and they were much more friendlier towards me in the past. They changed to the point where I can't speak frankly to them anymore.

I fear that I will not be able to find new people.
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You have already trained your mind to do something. You seeking answers.
My mind was going wild, thinking up reasons for them to 'hate' me or not trust me. There's really nothing I said or did that I can remember.

What I need to do now is be patient and give them a few days time. The last thing I want to do is ask the same thing again.
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Default Mar 25, 2018 at 10:07 AM
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I hope you find the answers to your question, I have been married for 25 years, and I feel that my H no longer cares for me, and hasn't for many years, and I am just realizing it. My thoughts, and prayers go out to you!!!!!!!
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