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Jul 22, 2004, 01:29 PM
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I feel really lousy right now. The past few days I have been feeling like I could not do anything right. I am no good for anyone in my life. I feel that I am one of those toxic girlfriends that people write about and that my boyfriend should just get rid of me. I wonder why I do not have any friends really...it is because I am a misearable person. I can't do anything right and I am not any good to anyone.
Today is one of those days that I think I need to just quit...... Jessica <font color=blue> You are in this snowglobe. It is encovered in glass and secure. But one day someone comes and shakes the globe and the pieces go flying everywhere. Now they will eventually settle but they won't be the way they were before and they can never be that way again. </font color=blue>
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Jul 22, 2004, 01:45 PM
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Shakes: I feel like I out to slap you and make you snap out of it.
ARE YOU CRAZY? Think about it, how many times have you pull me out of the ditch? How many times have you pulled many of us out of the ditch? You, along with others, are the core of the support system for most people that frequent this forums ... so there. We love you, we need you. You are a beautiful person. Shake it off lady! (((((((hughs to you)))))))) gab
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Jul 22, 2004, 01:50 PM
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*weak smile*
Thanks Gloria. Jessica <font color=blue> You are in this snowglobe. It is encovered in glass and secure. But one day someone comes and shakes the globe and the pieces go flying everywhere. Now they will eventually settle but they won't be the way they were before and they can never be that way again. </font color=blue>
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Jul 22, 2004, 09:07 PM
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Jessica,
You are being too hard on yourself. Hang in there! These feeling will pass, I am sure. Meachie |
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Jul 23, 2004, 11:56 AM
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shakes, real simple...
Just keep reminding yourself (and let us remind you) that those thoughts are born in our depressed brains and are not a "cause and effect" based on reality. Dare say, it is NATURAL to think those things... because that is what depression it... not because they have any bearing in truth. It is very hard to believe that but keep reminding the "logic" part of your brain of this fact however and whenever you can... and when it is most difficult just try to trust us and accept what we say... Just your "personality" on the board here makes me consider you a valuable friend. Any toxicity is the posion of depression clouding your rational process, not something that leaks out onto other people. ------------------------------------ --http://www.idexter.com
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Jul 23, 2004, 12:48 PM
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(((Gloria, Ozzie, Meachie, Dexter))))
Thank you so much for replying to this thread. I think that i was just having a really bad day and needed to hear it. I have been doing so well lately that I guess I was due for some uncertainity in my life. I am just pleased that I have made some progress at all. Your kind words really helped. Thanks so much. Jessica <font color=blue> You are in this snowglobe. It is encovered in glass and secure. But one day someone comes and shakes the globe and the pieces go flying everywhere. Now they will eventually settle but they won't be the way they were before and they can never be that way again. </font color=blue>
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