[cryingontheinside]

My mum screams at my daughter's and makes them cry . She also has to control everything. Because of my mh I can't do much about the situation .it's very complicated . If I report her to social services she will never talk to me again and my younger daughter who lives with her can end up in care. I got so mad at her. She's also trying to control me and the time I spend with my daughter's . My older daughter doesn't live with her but she still tries to control the visitation I have with her even though it's none of her business . She also doesn't seem to like my older daughter who has autism even though she's so well behaved and she screamed at her and made her cry . She also doesn't want to look after my younger daughter and called her the devil . Because of my mental health I probably can't get full custody so I have to put up with all this bs. It also reminds me when I was a teenager when she used to bully me and even physically attacked me a few times . I know she's not physical of with my girls who are both teenagers . She pretends to be scared of my younger daughter and has turned lots of family members against her . My mum is the bully though I saw that clearly last night despite the fact she always tries to blame my daughter . I wish I could do more to change this whole situation

[cryingontheinside]

I guess this is more of a rant than anything but any advice or comment will be appreciated

[cryingontheinside]

Also I nearly died 8 months ago . I was ill and ended up in a coma ( nothing to do with my mh ) when I came out I started smoking again so my mum threatened to put me in supported living and said the hospital staff said she has the authority to do that . I know she was lying . My mh is not that mad where I am incapable of making decisions for myself so I know she can't do that. She is just trying to control everything . I've had enough of it

[cryingontheinside]

Not that bad *

[Thirty shades]

So sorry to hear what you are going through.

Can you get help from a therapist?

I have come to the conclusion that sometimes we get caught up in horrible situations with our abusers and the only thing that has helped me is to cut contact. It has not stopped the abuse as such because they use third parties to attempt to reestablish contact.

Much love and supportive hugs to you cryingontheinside

[MtnTime2896]

I'm afraid I have no advice to offer, just my attention. I'm sorry for what you're dealing with my friend.