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Old Aug 21, 2018, 09:20 AM
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It has been declared by the experts that I’m not worth helping.

As I cannot eat them it would appear that I only have one remaining option.

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Old Aug 21, 2018, 09:29 AM
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And why do some people have to insist on invalidating the truth that the doctors in this country are lacking a basic bedside manner and basic respect or care?

I’m not talking about anyone in particular, this has happened to me several times

So now I’m “delusional” as well?

Too bad I can’t tolerate the meds they try to force on me and that I don’t “benefit” from the substandard CBT... so by their ugly and skewed logic I’m a fundamentally flawed human being who deserves to be kicked repeatedly until I’m bleeding . (“Professionals” irl)
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Old Aug 21, 2018, 09:36 AM
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And why do some people have to insist on invalidating the truth that the doctors in this country are lacking a basic bedside manner and basic respect or care?
because they have not experienced healthcare in this country.
I have said before that I am immensely lucky to have a fantastic GP but, apart from listening to me whinge there is not much she can do apart from refer to me to other people who just throw drugs at me, then give up on me when they don't work

to you. You DO deserve to live, you are a warm and lovely person but I know it's hard to believe this when those who are supposed be in the 'caring' profession couldn't care less and would rather blame you than accept that they may be doing something wrong
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Old Aug 21, 2018, 09:39 AM
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It has been declared by the experts that I’m not worth helping.

As I cannot eat them it would appear that I only have one remaining option.


maybe there are other options...you can't go to jail for what you are thinking...and I can think of a lot of options....but I get scared quick
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Old Aug 21, 2018, 10:21 AM
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Old Aug 21, 2018, 12:30 PM
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It has been declared by the experts that I’m not worth helping.

As I cannot eat them it would appear that I only have one remaining option.

Fuzzybear, don't believe them.

You totally deserve to live.

We love and care about you.
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Old Aug 21, 2018, 12:36 PM
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And why do some people have to insist on invalidating the truth that the doctors in this country are lacking a basic bedside manner and basic respect or care?

I’m not talking about anyone in particular, this has happened to me several times

So now I’m “delusional” as well?

Too bad I can’t tolerate the meds they try to force on me and that I don’t “benefit” from the substandard CBT... so by their ugly and skewed logic I’m a fundamentally flawed human being who deserves to be kicked repeatedly until I’m bleeding . (“Professionals” irl)
No Fuzzy definitely not delusional. You are like me. I can't tolerate the meds either. Doctors in this country are lacking a basic bedside manners, basic respect and care.
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Old Aug 21, 2018, 12:59 PM
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Try laughing. They are absurd in their inability to assist. So laugh them down. It's their loss, not yours.
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Old Aug 21, 2018, 01:04 PM
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Fuzzy, you deserve everything good in life. You don't deserve those "professionals" who invalidated you. You don't deserve people that make you feel badly about yourself.
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Old Aug 21, 2018, 01:16 PM
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I don’t find it at all funny, it’s life and death they are playing with. These “professionals” irl

It is NOT FUNNY
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Old Aug 21, 2018, 01:18 PM
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Fuzzy, you deserve everything good in life. You don't deserve those "professionals" who invalidated you. You don't deserve people that make you feel badly about yourself.
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Old Aug 21, 2018, 01:20 PM
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No Fuzzy definitely not delusional. You are like me. I can't tolerate the meds either. Doctors in this country are lacking a basic bedside manners, basic respect and care.
I agree, and this is “funny”

Wtf

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Old Aug 21, 2018, 01:21 PM
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Fuzzybear, don't believe them.

You totally deserve to live.

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Old Aug 21, 2018, 01:26 PM
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Doctors who lack basic respect or care are NOT FUNNY.

It’s not like a sloppy ice cream server
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Old Aug 21, 2018, 01:56 PM
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It has been declared by the experts that I’m not worth helping.
Hmmm...? It appears they use a "stepped care model" of treatment. See this 2012 article from the journal Implementation Science: Delivering stepped care: an analysis of implementation in routine practice. The entire article is freely available online there. Excerpt:
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In the United Kingdom, clinical guidelines recommend that services for depression and anxiety should be structured around a stepped care model, where patients receive treatment at different 'steps,' with the intensity of treatment (i.e., the amount and type) increasing at each step if they fail to benefit at previous steps. ... Our objective was to describe patient pathways through stepped care services and the impact of this on patient flow and management.


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Old Aug 21, 2018, 02:06 PM
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Hmmm...? It appears they use a "stepped care model" of treatment. See this 2012 article from the journal Implementation Science: Delivering stepped care: an analysis of implementation in routine practice. The entire article is freely available online there. Excerpt:

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And then there are those - like me, apparently...............who are “beyond help” and who “fail to benefit” from life..

Who “fail” to comprehend that these idiot doctors are “funny”

Who have been so thoroughly violated and scared by incompetent and callous professionals that they are “desperate” to exit but have too much “pride” to scream for “help” that they know will not arrive. Fuzzy bear is ****ed

Sorry about the anger

If I ever consult a “professional” again I might tell them I’ve “failed to benefit”......from their... what.........?... I’m sure that would make them happy, it would make them feel superior. and they could write it down in my notes.

Sorry I’m grrrrrrrrrrrrr it’s not because of your post
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Old Aug 21, 2018, 02:14 PM
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And then there are those - like me, apparently...............who are “beyond help” and who “fail to benefit” from life..

Who “fail” to comprehend that these idiot doctors are “funny”

Who have been so thoroughly violated and scared by incompetent and callous professionals that they are “desperate” to exit but have too much “pride” to scream for “help” that they know will not arrive. Fuzzy bear is ****ed

Sorry about the anger

If I ever consult a “professional” again I might tell them I’ve “failed to benefit”......from their... what.........?... I’m sure that would make them happy, it would make them feel superior. and they could write it down in my notes.

Sorry I’m grrrrrrrrrrrrr it’s not because of your post
This is a safe space for angering Fuzzy.

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Old Aug 21, 2018, 02:15 PM
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I agree, and this is “funny”

Wtf

Not funny at all, ever!
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Old Aug 21, 2018, 02:44 PM
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Fuzzy you do deserve help, you're wonderful

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Old Aug 22, 2018, 01:20 AM
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I'm so sorry, Fuzzy. I have had my fair share of extreme misery and tremendous frustration with doctors - and pdocs!...well, a few are decent folk; plenty are loonier than any patient there ever was. Honestly, I don't think that one country is any different than another country. Even finding a pdoc here is extremely difficult; when one does find a pdoc, the pdoc is often gone within a few months because the health care system is so messed up. It's a crisis at this point, the state of mental health care.

No one thinks cruel doctors are funny. I certainly don't!! No, I honestly believe that Candy meant something that I often forget, which is to try my hardest not to take every bit of life quite so hard - as is my tendency to do.

For example, I have a clear memory of my first stay IP. When I left the hospital and went home I recall telling myself that the incident that caused me to go into hospital wasn't as serious as I had taken it to be. No, it was not funny...it's just that I could have taken the incident with a bit of levity. But my depression didn't allow for it. Had I not let everything and everyone slam into my very soul, I would have suffered much less and been able to make healthier choices.

To this day, I wish I had developed a better ability to see the comedy, or lighter side, of some situations. I have not been able to do so at all, and I truly believe that it's to my loss. Just a thought I have as this thread caught my eye.

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Old Aug 22, 2018, 05:23 AM
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This is a safe space for angering Fuzzy.

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yes....we can be as angry as we want here..
and that anger sometimes turns into much love..
thirty shades knows..
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