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Old Aug 22, 2018, 02:35 PM
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Old Aug 22, 2018, 02:43 PM
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You teach people how to treat you by the way you treat yourself. Start putting your needs first.
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Old Aug 22, 2018, 02:49 PM
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I'll continue.
Despite the fact I care for everyone's needs.
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Old Aug 22, 2018, 02:50 PM
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Keep sharing. We are here for you .
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Old Aug 22, 2018, 02:53 PM
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Old Aug 22, 2018, 03:11 PM
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There's no point, nobody listens to me when I try to tell people what I need.
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Old Aug 22, 2018, 03:13 PM
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I need to get out of the clutches of my crazy parents' grasp. I cannot. Had an appointment with my psych doc today. Told me to stay away from med school.

If there's one thing I am not gonna listen from him, it's it. I am going to die trying escaping.
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Old Aug 22, 2018, 03:25 PM
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I’ve been there, and it sucks

There are people here who really care about you..

But I know it’s not the same as having a flesh and blood person or people who love you and are there for you

Although we are flesh and blood and I’ve found people online who I trust more than most in “real” life

And I’ve also crossed paths with some who... like my PUS.... didn’t “appreciate” me...

You’re “strong” to survive when people are so mean

I wish I could find the potion that would make me into a Grizzly Bear permanently, I don’t think those idiots would be too happy

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Old Aug 22, 2018, 03:29 PM
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Are these “professionals” who don’t care about your needs?

No need to answer
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Old Aug 22, 2018, 03:35 PM
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Are these “professionals” who don’t care about your needs?

No need to answer

Not just professionals but most people.
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Old Aug 22, 2018, 03:36 PM
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Not just professionals but most people.
Most people suck

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Old Aug 22, 2018, 05:13 PM
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Would you mind if I EAT the people who are so cruel to you?

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Old Aug 22, 2018, 05:29 PM
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I hope this helps

No point.
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Old Aug 22, 2018, 05:30 PM
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Sorry, whispershadow. Any kind of not being heard is really upsetting. Hang in there, if you can. Batter away at them (in the moments when you're able) by repeating things and returning to the subject, and so on. Sometimes, it's good to be an annoyance!
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Old Aug 22, 2018, 05:31 PM
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Would you mind if I EAT the people who are so cruel to you?

So brilliant and funny!
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Old Aug 22, 2018, 05:33 PM
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Sorry, whispershadow. Any kind of not being heard is really upsetting. Hang in there, if you can. Batter away at them (in the moments when you're able) by repeating things and returning to the subject, and so on. Sometimes, it's good to be an annoyance!
It doesn’t matter if horrible mean people think we’re an annoyance..

Their opinion is none of my business ..

And as far as the n.s. -it’s the only way to get any “help”

They will spew out their labels anyway. Some of the “literature” is sickening to me



PS I wish I had challenged that shrink who said there’s “no point”

He was actually quite nice and helpful the first couple of times I consulted him

unlike that Ghastly Practitioner
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Old Aug 22, 2018, 08:42 PM
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Things often feel at their worst before they get much better. Don’t lose hope.
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Old Aug 23, 2018, 05:07 AM
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unlike that Ghastly Practitioner
Great post Fuzzy, you have managed to make me smile....

Much love
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Old Aug 23, 2018, 10:51 AM
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Things often feel at their worst before they get much better. Don’t lose hope.

Why not? nobody listens to me.
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Old Aug 23, 2018, 07:43 PM
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I know the feels of not being listened to too... Maybe less whispering in the shadows, more yelling in the light? x3

Sorry, lame attempt at being silly and wise... Some truth to it though, maybe.
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Old Aug 23, 2018, 07:57 PM
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Great post Fuzzy, you have managed to make me smile....

Much love
Aww I just saw this - I’m glad I made you smile



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Old Aug 23, 2018, 07:59 PM
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You teach people how to treat you by the way you treat yourself. Start putting your needs first.
Good idea but not at all easy for some people

Some people are just mean anyway.. imo
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Old Aug 23, 2018, 08:03 PM
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Why not? nobody listens to me.
We listen to you here, I hope?
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