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Old Sep 10, 2018, 02:29 PM
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Why can’t everyone be kind, caring and thoughtful.. like so many are here

They say things like “pull yourself up by your bootstraps”

There are no perks, no “benefits” to this unrelenting anxiety and depression...

I’d much rather be “getting on with my life” and not “whining” or ranting on the Internet...

I wish I could “get by” in silence, but I can’t ... and I can’t hurt Papa Bear

But maybe I do anyway.

Surely it’s hibernation time .....
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Old Sep 10, 2018, 02:48 PM
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There are no perks, no “benefits” to this unrelenting anxiety and depression...

I’d much rather be “getting on with my life” and not “whining” or ranting on the Internet...
If only people understood that this isn't a choice.

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Old Sep 10, 2018, 02:50 PM
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I pulled the bootstraps till they broke, and then the boots fell apart.

Some of us need a space where we don't have to "censor" our words, a place where we can say things that don't conform to therapeutic orthodoxy.

You are using words, dear Fuzzybear. And that is very, very good.

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Old Sep 10, 2018, 02:59 PM
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If only people understood that this isn't a choice.

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Old Sep 10, 2018, 03:01 PM
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I pulled the bootstraps till they broke, and then the boots fell apart.

Some of us need a space where we don't have to "censor" our words, a place where we can say things that don't conform to therapeutic orthodoxy.

You are using words, dear Fuzzybear. And that is very, very good.

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Thank you dear Rohag ((((((((( hugs )))))))))
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Old Sep 10, 2018, 03:23 PM
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People without mental health issues just don't understand

We like hearing our Fuzzy though
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Old Sep 10, 2018, 03:30 PM
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People without mental health issues just don't understand

We like hearing our Fuzzy though
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Old Sep 10, 2018, 04:23 PM
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Dear Fuzzy We are all here for you, and it is good to see your words. I hope we see more of them when you are doing better!!! (((((((BIG GIANT HUGS))))))) sent to you!
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Old Sep 10, 2018, 04:25 PM
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Some choose not to understand; it's just too distasteful for them. If it's distasteful for them, imagine how WE feel!
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Old Sep 10, 2018, 04:27 PM
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Dear Fuzzy We are all here for you, and it is good to see your words. I hope we see more of them when you are doing better!!! (((((((BIG GIANT HUGS))))))) sent to you!
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Old Sep 10, 2018, 04:27 PM
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Some choose not to understand; it's just too distasteful for them. If it's distasteful for them, imagine how WE feel!
Good post my friend, this is so true
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Old Sep 10, 2018, 04:44 PM
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Old Sep 10, 2018, 06:51 PM
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Old Sep 11, 2018, 03:09 AM
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My brain chooses a fulfilling and normal life, if only my body would agree...

When the motherboard is broken, it doesn't matter what choices we make....

It's CBT that makes people believe that we have a choice. Somehow we are all just thinking incorrectly. People and even medical professionals have no idea....
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Old Sep 11, 2018, 06:20 AM
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Why can’t everyone be kind, caring and thoughtful.. like so many are here
People say if everyone thought the same the world would be boring. This is a phrase that I have never been able to understand.

If everyone was kind, caring and thoughtful, the world would be all the better. It would not be boring!
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Old Sep 11, 2018, 02:28 PM
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I pulled the bootstraps till they broke, and then the boots fell apart.

Some of us need a space where we don't have to "censor" our words, a place where we can say things that don't conform to therapeutic orthodoxy.

You are using words, dear Fuzzybear. And that is very, very good.

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Old Sep 12, 2018, 02:52 AM
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I pulled the bootstraps till they broke, and then the boots fell apart.
Great post, why don't they realise we have no boots left......
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