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Default Dec 11, 2018 at 07:43 AM
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I am pretty angry today....very angry
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suicide....I just don't understand this...

I understand why people want to kill other people...
but I don't understand wanting to kill yourself...
I need to learn more about this...
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I just wanted to say good morning to Little T, Fuzzy, and everyone else on the bus!!! (((((((BIG HUGS TO ALL))))))) I have another long Dr. apt this afternoon. I have to layer my cloths, for 1 it is very cold, and the 2nd reason is they always weigh me, and they won't like my weigh. Yesterday I had a long apt yesterday at the infusion center that my H took me to, and I had to layer my cloths for that. I have to go every 6 months for this treatment. They normaly weigh me, but yesterday they just asked me. I told them it was 104, 10 pounds more than I am. I am glad I got through that one without problems, now I need to get through today's apt. Wish me luck. I have had a difficult week, and I don't want to have to deal with them getting on me about my weight.
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I understand why people want to kill other people...
but I don't understand wanting to kill yourself...
I need to learn more about this...
When I am back on the bus, I will help you understand this a little better, from first hand experience!!! (((((((BIG HUGS)))))))
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When I am back on the bus, I will help you understand this a little better, from first hand experience!!! (((((((BIG HUGS)))))))

can you tell me now...and I hope you do ok at your appt...
I need a lot of help....I am abnormal and I am a sinner..
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Default Dec 11, 2018 at 08:51 AM
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I am abnormal....my celexa is being stopped gradually...
I think that my emotions are coming out...
they have been suppressed by the celexa ....
so now maybe I can be more real...still abnormal according to others..
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What is abnormal? Who defines abnormal?


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What is abnormal? Who defines abnormal?

There is no normal. We are all unique souls...

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I understand why people want to kill other people...
but I don't understand wanting to kill yourself...
I need to learn more about this...
Emotional pain is very hard to bear. Depression causes our bodies to freeze physically, mentally and emotionally... We don't then feel able to help ourselves. Emotional abandonment of ourself is very dangerous.

That coupled with crippling thoughts about how useless etc. a person feels.

Thoughts that others would be better off without them being a burden.

Our brains are very complicated organs....

More love, understanding, support and respect for others goes a long way.

Much love today Little Turtle.
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I am abnormal because I have a mental illness...
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“More love, understanding, support and respect for others goes a long way”



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when I am talking about abnormal I am not talking about anyone else....
for most of my 87 years I have been told that mental illness makes me abnormal...
I have lived with that stigma...I have even incorporated it into me....
I know that actually I am little turtle who has a mental illness....
I am not the mental illness....

also I am in a very bad angry mad mood this morning....not directed at
anyone here...
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when I am talking about abnormal I am not talking about anyone else....
for most of my 87 years I have been told that mental illness makes me abnormal...
I have lived with that stigma...I have even incorporated it into me....
I know that actually I am little turtle who has a mental illness....
I am not the mental illness....

also I am in a very bad angry mad mood this morning....not directed at
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Some of the “professionals” I’ve consulted in this forest said or implied that I’m abnormal and “less than” them. Thanks a bunch

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Some of the “professionals” I’ve consulted in this forest said or implied that I’m abnormal and “less than” them. Thanks a bunch

(Not about anyone on pc)
fuzzy...I am with you...... I don't like that [less than] them...
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this morning I am reading the book peace of mind....
the author says on page 35----"it must strengthen
mature men and women to realize that everyone
has desires and fantasies anti-social in nature"

what do you think about that...
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I am suspicious of "must" assertions. However, my observations support "everyone has desires and fantasies anti-social in nature."

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I am suspicious of "must" assertions. However, my observations support "everyone has desires and fantasies anti-social in nature."
I agree with this

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I agree with rohag and fuzzy....I really don't like most of this book...
it is much too -----this is the right way...preachy.....
there are some ideas that I find helpful....like helping not hurting yourself...
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Default Dec 12, 2018 at 01:20 PM
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I am abnormal because I have a mental illness...

If that's the case, then the world is abnormal. We are each unique. And like Fuzzy asks "who defines "normal"'? Normal is boring , as I see it. You are who you are....a little turtle with much to give.

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thanks calla lily12----we need more unicorns...

I am so unhappy...things are not peaceful...and there is such injustice...
and the stigma is there,,,such misunderstanding...
I am going to try to be as honest as possible...I hate BS...
I will also try to be kind...and patient...there are many good persons here
on this depression forum...
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