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Grand Magnate
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Oct 14, 2018 at 06:16 AM
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this morning with my wife....
I am paying attention to what she is saying about me... I am paying attention to critical and blame comments... I am trying to point these out without getting angry... this is very hard for me...I am very angry at my wife... not for what she is thinking but what she is saying... |
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Grand Magnate
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Oct 14, 2018 at 08:53 AM
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I have also been listening to Dorothy Rowe. Thank you to those who have mentioned this lady. She talks of Hot and Cold Anger. This has left me to think quite hard about anger. I have to admit to hot anger when triggered by abusive situations and people. I wish I had more control. My fight and flight responses seems to kick in, it seems. Anyone had any success catching themselves before talking or shouting with so much emotion? |
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Wisest Elder Ever
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Oct 14, 2018 at 12:43 PM
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Hot and cold anger, I hadn’t heard of that.. I haven’t read much Dorothy Rowe for a while.
I have difficulty sometimes with PTSD “fight” types / NPD who accuse others of all sorts of stuff that in fact belongs in the “family” of origin, and not in the “object” of their rage  Step maternal unit specialises in that. Eff her   
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Oct 15, 2018 at 02:38 PM
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((((((( hugs to all )))))))
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Grand Magnate
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Oct 15, 2018 at 04:14 PM
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((((hugs to you Fuzzy and all other posters))))
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Grand Magnate
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Oct 15, 2018 at 04:13 PM
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There is no excuse for people who attack others. It is hard though for us to truly respond assertively when our emotions are so abused. Do you ever stand up against your PU's Fuzzy? 
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Oct 15, 2018 at 04:33 PM
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I agree, it is hard for us to respond assertively when our emotions are so abused. I think a sadistic therapist (in real life) realised this.. its not hard to.. and used me both as a cash cow and to take his rage and indifference out on
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Grand Magnate
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Oct 16, 2018 at 03:17 AM
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Anger: Hot & Cold Anger & Permanent Life Improvements - Distance Energy Work: energy healing methods |
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Grand Magnate
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Oct 15, 2018 at 05:01 PM
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what happened fuzzy
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Oct 15, 2018 at 05:05 PM
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 A GP a while ago asked me if I’d seen a psychiatrist. I may have mentioned this before. I just said “yes” .. (“a while ago”) I don’t trust them Although the GPs give 10 minutes (at the most, usually) and have very little understanding of MI or desire to listen.. at least they haven’t tried to force me to stop the benzos which is about the only thing which is helping me stay somewhat sane since I’m allergic to all the other meds I’ve tried.. and have severe anxiety .. which that idiot of a therapist said I had had for “too long” - the anxiety
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Grand Magnate
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Oct 16, 2018 at 08:09 AM
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we are all HUMAN BEINGS...
on the AS IS bus... |
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Oct 16, 2018 at 11:17 AM
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((((((((( all on the as is bus ))))))))
Love and respect Fuzzy
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Grand Magnate
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Oct 16, 2018 at 05:45 PM
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I am still withdrawing from my celexa...
and I feel better...I am more alive.. there will probably be a down time... but I am feeling hopeful today.. |
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Oct 17, 2018 at 08:18 AM
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I don't think I want to growup so to speak...
I don't want to be what is called successful... I want to be a kind and caring person... I don't want to be fighting all the time... I just want to seek after what is true and helpful.. I can't stand when I hurt someone by what I say or do... |
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Oct 17, 2018 at 09:27 AM
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How can I like and respect a species who have done nothing but harm me (Professionals in this forest) 
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Grand Magnate
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Oct 17, 2018 at 08:46 AM
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what is true...what is real
there is a lot of stress now in the world.. terror may be worse than war... my greatest stress is me "we have met the enemy and he is us" ??pogo |
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Oct 17, 2018 at 09:28 AM
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I have a big problem with these psych drugs...
I have a big problem with drugs in general... I have used them but I see that doctors and drug companies really push them too much... I don't like all the money being made off of our SUFFERING....isn't there something better.. |
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Oct 17, 2018 at 09:44 AM
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The something better isn’t fuzzy bear.
Fuzzy bear is a pos They judge me in their ivory towers and scream with indignation when I speak my truth, so I must be a terrible terrible bear At least that’s what they want me to think. But they are idiots and are quite simply WRONG. __________________
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Oct 17, 2018 at 10:05 AM
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I just thought of something...
my wife and I have been fighting forever... this morning we agreed about something.. we were cooperating...what a difference.. I am the mentally ill guy.. I want to be the mentally ill guy.. |
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Oct 17, 2018 at 10:07 AM
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The abusers in my life do not change.
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