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Sep 26, 2018 at 09:46 AM
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Continued from here https://forums.psychcentral.com/depr...rtle-love.html
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Sep 26, 2018 at 09:48 AM
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Hi to little turtle and all on the bus
 
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Sep 26, 2018 at 02:19 PM
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This is my third attempt at posting here
  Love to all
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Sep 26, 2018 at 04:54 PM
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This bus is very quiet...
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Sep 26, 2018 at 05:01 PM
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Hello Fuzzy and anyone else who gets on the bus.
Much love to all.
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Sep 26, 2018 at 07:42 PM
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Sep 26, 2018 at 08:37 PM
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Thanks for this SAFE thread little turtle
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Sep 27, 2018 at 10:46 AM
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Hi little turtle, how do I deal with people who Declare that I have no value?
 Or people who persist in a triggering behaviour after I’ve asked them to stop.
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Sep 27, 2018 at 12:52 PM
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Sep 27, 2018 at 06:12 PM
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we need to get everyone on the bus to talk about this...rohag is reasonable....he may have an idea..fuzzy how are you handling it... |
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Sep 28, 2018 at 01:43 AM
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How are you fuzzy, little turtle, rohag, thirty shades and everyone else on the bus? Much love and hugs. 
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Sep 28, 2018 at 01:49 AM
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I too have a problem with people who persist in triggering behaviour after I have asked them to stop. I either try to ignore them or end up arguing with them...but I end up feeling hurt when I resort to arguing....don't know how to deal with them effectively.
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Sep 28, 2018 at 02:51 AM
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 The advice I have been given, in the past, is too be assertive. It is just not the easy when my brain is so much slower than the people who throw abuse at you. Would be great if we could all try and put some sentences together, see if any of them will work. I will try one to start..... I find it helpful when people speak to me in a kinder and loving way. |
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Sep 28, 2018 at 05:47 AM
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this bus has now started on a journey..
I wish we could call it the fuzzy bus.. |
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Sep 28, 2018 at 07:14 AM
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triggering...
I have been married 63 years...almost 64.... my marriage causes me the most stress... I am very sensitive to anything my wife is saying... i see my wife as being very critical .... she is frequently making statements about me... and mostly i perceive these as critical... just this last year i have been speaking up... i feel much better about myself... |
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Sep 28, 2018 at 03:56 PM
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I’m glad speaking up has helped you feel better. Most of the abusers in my life simply ignore me and continue with the abusive behaviour if I speak up I think that’s the mark of an abuser. They continue despite a clear request to stop. . I wish I’d known that years ago, I might not be so ****ed up and wishing I was dead  sorry about the triggering post. It’s been a horrible day.
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Sep 28, 2018 at 04:40 PM
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grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
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Sep 28, 2018 at 05:43 PM
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Oh well (((((( little turtle and all on the bus )))))) __________________
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Sep 28, 2018 at 05:45 PM
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I think it’s a stupid lie that I’ve “failed” as a friend. It’s exactly what the PUS want me to think, that I’m “good for nothing”
 thanks a ****kng bunch I can see through them and their lies and games (Not about anyone here) __________________
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Sep 29, 2018 at 09:33 AM
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I have some off the bus talk---------5 days ago I lowered my celexa from 5mg to 2.5mg..at the same time I started taking magnesium every day...so far I am feeling better...there will probably come a time when I get real scared....but I am going to try
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